I get that there are a multitude of men on here that may or may not be sincere, but are there any woman or couples that are? I have tried to follow some advice and have been 100% open and honest on my profile, but honesty it seems is a detriment on this site. I either get people who only want pics or people that want to bash me because my wife is not involved. I am being judged! On a swingers site! I guess that because I am not your typical guy here looking for only one thing, people don't know how to respond. I was so happy to find this outlet but that has now turned to disappointment. I have been to the clubs but at this stage the comfort level is not there, so my only option is to chat a bit here with the hopes of a face to face coffee mtg. with those I may connect with. It seems most are happy to stay in their basement and take care of themselves.