Swing clubs

Hi , we have never been to a swing club but really want to get dressed up ( wife  .. sexy ) and just enjoy the dancing and a sexy night out but not looking to hook up with question is are there pushy people at these clubs as we would find that to be a real turn-off.

More than likely the people will respect your boundaries more so at a swinger's club than at a vanilla club.  Of course, depending on the person, they may not listen.  Let the staff know and they will "educate" the offender.

Our dilemma is finding smaller parties to attend, not big clubs

Two questions to piggy back off softmature's post:

1) what would it be like for a single woman to attend a club? I'm not looking for action, but would love some attention in a safe environment.

2) I have heard the dress code is "dress to impress" at most of these clubs, but most of my nice clothes err on the conservative side. What should I look for if shopping for something to wear at a club?