Me:  A 43 year old woman,  youthful-looking, 5'6, solidly-built, with lots of extra pounds (about a size 18) and the ravages of three children.   I have long, thick hair, ample bosom with fairly balanced proportions.   I keep myself as coiffed and pulled together as possible :-) . Possibly bi-open depending on the circumstance Him:  A 49 year old man, 6 ft (maybe an inch shy these days), conventionally attractive, average weight with a bit of a belly, shaved head with a short, tidy beard and a nice appendage.  He is bi-curious--but not yet clear as to the extent. Us:  A committed couple in our second go-around.  We both love sex in all its forms and we're open-minded (He’s admittedly a little more open-minded than me and was a seasoned swinger in his previous life).  We're not fetishists, don't have any highly unusual tastes and enjoy pleasure-giving and pleasure-getting equally.  We are style-conscious, Caucasian, educated, professional, healthy non-smokers who visit the dentist regularly. We're both relaxed and social, casual drinkers who know our limits...ask if there's anything else you'd like to know. You: a bi or bi-curious man, or a bi-curious couple somewhat like us, open to possibilities with no major hang-ups; ideally over 40, shower-fresh, articulate, genuine, nothing major to hide.