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Group Chat or One on One

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Warming the Bed
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Anyone else have the preference for having one-on-one chats vs all 4 people in a group chat?

We've found it's often like one person is speaking to 3, not sure who will respond, and often the conversation becomes 2 people talking while the other 2 are busy.

So much easier with one-on-one chats with the other spouses, and that way everyone can develop their own dynamic.

Anyone else share this preference?

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Forum Virgin
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Definitely agree.   In concept, 4 way chatting is great but in reality trying to have all 4 people available at the same time is near impossible.  

Forum Virgin
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I happen to be available for 1:1 chats 🙂

Warming the Bed
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We like when all 4 are on the chat. Even though not all 4 people generally are on at the same, we like the transparency

Forum Virgin
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We prefer 4 way chats. Don't expect everyone to participate all the time but everyone sees everything. With couples looking for couples there does have to be a certain amount of chemistry or respect among all 4. Best to figure that out chatting before a meeting.