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Recently my spouse has hinted at a MMF threesome. Any advice on how to get the conversation going without being to pushy and turning her off? Thanks.

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Hi, we are new too. We talked about having a 3rd in the mix. We talked about watching each other be pleasured and posible jealousies. He  qonderd what it would be like for 2 women who know their bodies and can share what they like. I have wondered the same. There was no pushing. We explored the subject together. We agreed on a person, met for coffee which lasted a couple of hours. He was someone I  felt comfortable with. The 3 of us discussed trepidations and decided we were comfortable. A couple of days later we messaged him and told him we were ready. He is a very kind and thoughtful person which is important to me. I was amazed at how all my hesitation left. It is such a turn on to watch him suck my partner while looking at me to see how I  reacted. I was grinning.  At some point I  just had to have my partner in me. New guy watched and fondled me. I hope this helps. Our problem is finding people. We are almost 70 and most seem to be the age of our children. Ewww. ?