Join for Free!

Body type / size listed on profile !

last reply
6 months ago
10 replies
3.8k views
11 watchers
20 likes
Warming the Bed
Swinging Heaven Logo 3 likes 2 years ago

Maybe we are crazy , but our interpretation of what is a medium body type really must differ from a lot of people. So many are listed as medium when to us they seem to be large - extra large. 

Anybody see it like us , or are we the misfits ?


Unknown User
Swinging Heaven Logo 2 likes 2 years ago

I’m clear about my body.  I’m bbw.  But to be fair, where medium actually is is changing.  If there’s a standard for you, just ask for actual measurements. 

Warming the Bed
Swinging Heaven Logo 2 likes 2 years ago

it is not a matter of asking for measurements, which would be a terrible thing to do.  

The old large is the new medium ??

Unknown User
Swinging Heaven Logo 3 likes 2 years ago

um. I think it’s just that there’s never been a standard.  People all view themselves differently.  I don’t think of myself as particularly large at all, but evidently there’s an obesity crisis and we’re all large/xl/xxl/xxxxxl now. 

Warming the Bed
Swinging Heaven Logo 2 likes 2 years ago

Come on ! We all know what medium is. We all know what large is - just be a little more objective about it ?

Unknown User
Swinging Heaven Logo 0 likes 2 years ago

I’m the one calling herself bbw.  I think I am objective.  

Warming the Bed
Swinging Heaven Logo 1 like 2 years ago

That is great - it is always better to under promise and over deliver.

Unknown User
Swinging Heaven Logo 3 likes 2 years ago

People are comfortable asking and giving cock and boob sizes, why not measurements? I’m an XL in Canada and a 5XL in China, with 51.5” hips. Won’t know till you ask if there isn’t an international size standard.

Warming the Bed
Swinging Heaven Logo 0 likes 1 year ago

We are also fine with the question about size.  I am a stick and my sweety is a BBW, there has to be attraction not everyone likes large(or thin) people.  We don't mind being asked, and hopefully are profile pics show a little of our size.

Warming the Bed
Swinging Heaven Logo 1 like 6 months ago

We assume many larger people are medium sized and choose both when searching. Our pet peeve is the Assets field. One it is vague ad two it isn't gender separated in search and again this is true for body type.

So in our case we want women with large assets and medium to large bodies and are generally unconcerned about the males body or assets. However most guys will list their assets as medium fo large which means if they have a skinny small breasts wife we have to go through all those profiles.

Forum Virgin
Swinging Heaven Logo 0 likes 6 months ago

Not crazy at all. We have been thinking the same thing now for awhile. Glad to see we aren't the only ones.