There is a quickie section in the personal ads area that may yield better results 

There is a quickie section in the personal ads area that may yield better results 

swingshift 

click your name at the top of the screen, a drop down menu will appear. The verify option is there.

Oh no! BBWs are welcome every night at clubs and are in fact as sexy as all other people there. Go any night you like and shine!

love Ozone

SH meet and greets at NYX. 

there’s a dogging section at the top of the screen with dogging ads.

very helpful advice

Quote by jSquared101
It seems few people know about the vouch feature, and few people make use of those kinds of features. Just like very few have verified, even the ones I know for a fact are real. You do have to be friends to vouch for someone and I'm pretty sure you have to write something. I vouch for people I've met in real life. 

 Just make sure you read the vouchs, unfortunately some use it to start conversations, provide comments or even “ill vouche you if you vouche me”. 

Also check to see if a member is verified. This way you know the member has provided a face shot with a handwritten verification. If someone takes the time to prove they’re real to admin it’s a very good sign they are

It depends on what niche fits you. Going to a club you’ll see 30-50 people from this site. A house party about the same. A hotel fuck party you generally see a couple. Now meeting one on one you may be most comfy with but texting and chatting and matching schedules takes way longer. Now I’m not saying go to an event to play, I haven’t played at an event in over a year but I love going to meet people. Dance, chat face to face, no expectations, go home. Try gatherings of whatever sort, if it’s not your deal don’t return. Always remember, if you feel pressure you may be in the wrong place.