*ALL PM's accepted...

Decent, respectful, and careful couple looking to possibly grow our relationship. Would love to become friends with a couple and see where it took us. Singles? Would have to be the right person at the right time. It seems most are here without their partner, looking for side action. Our suggestion would be to fix your relationship instead of avoiding it.

(update on this: seems like over 80% of the single guys we've chatted with are here alone because "my wife doesn't understand..." . Yikes...)

We have kids, cats and dogs and careers that seem to demand the lions share of our time, hence our slow movement in this area. But this is a luxury to us, not a necessity, so if it never happens it isn't the end of our world.

He is pretty much the person you will encounter here, and pictures are her call, depending on if she gets the feeling a friendship is possible. We're both average and decent types so if you're the type that " must see photo's" before being able to make a connection- we suggest you look elsewhere. (If we like you, we like you- looks 'n all... and I've known beautiful people that aren't the type we'd ever want to get to know...)

We hang our hats in the Whitby/ Oshawa area, and work in Toronto. While distance may present an issue, it can also be part of the adventure. So if you're a reasonable distance away, you may simply end up as that couple/ person we have to get out to see for a weekend!

We haven't filled in our sexual preference.  Bi? Who knows. We are tolerant and understanding, mixed with a curious nature. We don't rule anything out, and have no expectations, and simply prefer to see where it goes. What happens in a bedroom, stays in a bedroom. We find that filling out a profile on a site like this has too many "black or whites". We hate to be held accountable to a checkbox.

We'd like "right", as opposed to "right now"...

(pssst...- if you suggest we upload pictures...it kinda tells us you're not the sharpest tool in the shed [can't read/ impatient], and we'll block 'n move on. Jus' sayin'...)

And as I've seen on a profile here: "If you send us an e-mail PLEASE don't send a " I would like to know more", take the time to send a message you wrote yourself." (Couldn't agree more.)

Whatever you seek here, we wish you well. Say hi anytime in chat or feel free to drop a line. Chatting is for everyone, and that's who we'll chat with- everyone.

Thanks- have fun...

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