We are an attractive couple new to this but very excited. I have played around a bit but my husband has not but is a very willing participant. We are very clean and discreet we also need discretion as we have children. We can send pics. I'll show u mine if u show me yours lol!!! We just want to have a good time meet someone for more my husbands to have a good time. I can join in but my focus is him having a good time that will turn me on. I'm open to either just him being involved or both.