We've discovered that at times planning things out far in advance is a challenge. When we are able to align our calendars we're much more likely to spontaneously decide to meet/find someone and move very quickly from drinks and conversation to playing/mutual pleasure at a first meet. Not to say that we are bed hoppers (because we are not), but when the mood strikes us we definitely want to play! 😈 We only play in the same room/play space. We have gone to the clubs a few times but our experience...