We have been a couple for 9 years and best friends for 12 years. We are secure in our relationship, but would like to add a female for some extra fun. We are non smokers and casual drinkers, and 420 friendly We like movies, music and travelling. We like going for dinner or drinks on occasion, but also like to stay home for dinner and a movie. We are very laid back and take things in stride and would like to find some who is just as laid back.