awesome.  Jealous,  have fun

Heading back in Feb, Valentines 

Hey guys, we are new to the lifestyle I’m kitchener for the weekend.  anyone dance it up at starlight? 

Hey there 

Bi guy here with couple experience.  Love having fun with men and women.  

Very very oral and love to get my mouth on everything.   

Love to chat.  

Jake

Looking to hook up with a couple and experience a sexy good time.

we’ve been to Desire 2 times.  It’s great, booked our 3rd trip for next year.  I’m pretty sure Breathless isn’t the new Desire.  ?

DP threesome

I (Mrs) am so excited for the craziness coming up this weekend. August 31st is Chatters night, Sept 1st is corset night (gawd I love a sexy woman in a corset) and Sept 2nd is the Super party! If I can I'll be at all 3 but I know for sure that we'll be there Saturday and Sunday. Anybody else planning to come? 

I’m in Bradford any place close 

mani know what you are going through I’m going through the same thing myself. To bad you live so far apart we could have met and talked about it 

hello my name is Ed and I’m new to the lifestyle 

We will sailing at the end of September. Let us know if you plan on being on the ship!

How was it?

Will be in town anybody  wants to meet

Will be in town anybody  wants to meet

I won't use the word outrageous for Oasis pricing.  They are downtown - that can't be cheap.  For anyone who doesn't want to drive, they have a great location.  They have a pool which is conversation central and gets quite packed.  Add in a sauna and hot tub, no other club has that.  However, these things run throughout the year and require maintenance and heating.  The other places just need to park a dance floor in the middle of nowhere, so their costs are trivial in comparison.

this is the second time the site has had a go fund me campaign. The first time the site crashed there was a go fund me as well

We always thank the people for reaching out and talking to us and then tell them unfortunately we both were not feeling the connection we needed and we wish them good luck. We are all adults but at the same time we never want people walking away from us being upset, so we are always as positive and grateful as we can be.

Our awkward situation is that we don't date profiles without guy pictures which is bolded and highlighted on our page.  If we respond honestly, we are in trouble if the couple then sends such photos and the Mrs declines.  That is basically a gut punch to the fellow.  

What is your generic response that lets people down easy?

I'm genuinely sorry that some have had to deal with rudeness! For the most part we actually get a "thank you for responding" the bottom line is everyone just wants closure one way or another we are all adults we can handle it.

We try and respond to every message it does get frustrating, the silence is deafening. Lol

My Mrs has the same problem with so many profiles.  At CD, there was much debate on this matter, with many arguing that the guy wasn't worth the picture.   The other argument was that the guy is famous or important, and cannot risk exposure.  Nevertheless, she has as much right to see what she is getting into.  Some surprises are best avoided.  Funny though, some think that his junk is sufficient stand-in for the whole package.  Ahhh, noooo.  Next!!!!!

We seem to be a tiny minority in that our shots are all as a couple.  Guess that it is because we are newbies.

Actually, the first steps start long before the clubs.  Some seem to jump right into it, whereas in our case, it is a slow road.  Step 1 was making her feel sexy.  Turn the lights on and let her know that she looks fab.  She needs to be confident enough to drop her clothes in front of others. Step 2 was stretch the boundaries.  We visited nude beaches.  We got frisky out of sight in the lakes while swimming.    Step 3 was made easy here in Toronto as the clubs have no pressure newbie tours where they reassure everyone of the rules and their safety.  Step 4 was as Kingston suggested which may get her intrigued.  Step 5 was use sites like this one to finds others on the same wave length.  Step 6 you see in our profile which is beginning with low risk shared massage.

Seems like a lot of work and time, but not everyone has the confidence to swing for the fences.  Hopefully, your wife opens herself to discovery.

there’s a posting on Ozone’s website saying:

“Cafe Desire is down due to a natural disaster and will return shortly...

In lieu of this, we are offering a Cafe Desire Withdrawl Super Party Weekend”!!!

PleasurePair made the comment in the thread, 'Does anyone meet on SH?' in the first forum.  They don't indicate their source.

Not to knock SH as we are liking many of this site's features.  

We actually enjoyed CD.  There are a lot of features that we liked.  The home page of club events was handy as well as the sign ups.  They make a distinction between full and soft swap couples to help connections.  The forums were quite healthy - comparatively, the SH forums are pretty dead.  There was some drama and road rage that got  some kicked off the site, but for the most part, people were good.

It is now 5(?) days and counting.  We are beginning to wonder if they are going to reopen in spite of the earlier news.

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was wondering the same thing. The last time this happened, the site ADMIN admitted that he was hesitant to fix it because it’s a thankless job. I’m glad to hear that he’s going to fix it again, although I wouldn’t be at all surprised if it’s was down for good.

Looking to meet genuine people for some fun

was wondering the same thing. The last time this happened, the site ADMIN admitted that he was hesitant to fix it because it’s a thankless job. I’m glad to hear that he’s going to fix it again, although I wouldn’t be at all surprised if it’s was no for good.