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jimjomjehe
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 67
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Weather is definitely getting warmer. Seeking exhibitionist couples or ladies interested in showing while I stroke or maybe join if comfortable. Car fun /watch also. Will pull up beside you and watch. Will be there Thursday after 5 pm.
Quote by fun4her" date="Apr 2, 2015, 2:13:32 PM
You don't need to meet anybody to be verified.......
You do to be fully verified, however as with most "meeting" sites, there idea is good however there actual working factor is very minimal, as most people can meet others in real life or from friends they know.
I am a member of a number of "kink" sites and to be honest they are "chat" forums and never meeting forums, although they do have a meeting area, the real situation is its to talk with others who are in to the same thing as them, very rarely does anyone actually meet.
Granted there will be a % who say they do meet, but then i know at least 2 people who have won the lottery so numbers themselves never speak the real story.
Normally your find it will be "females can choose who they want" and "males will never get a chance, and the ones that do can meet women in real life anyway so dont need online sites".
We are a couple with bi curious female and are looking for a bi female in London area. We are just wondering if there are certain places to go to meet them or meet couples with bi female for friends to hang out and see what happens. If there are people who know of spots or are interested in meeting let us know. Sorry no single males
Quote by fun4her" date="Mar 6, 2015, 9:57:54 AM
Hi.
We just opened an account here. I just went through the initial onslaught of "fresh meat" email and the first thing I noticed was that there were very few profiles that have been verified even though a couple of the profiles have been on the site for years. Image verification is a piece of cake and I would suspect after a few years you must have met someone here.
So why are so few profiles getting verified? I find it a little odd that so few would consider getting verified important.
We'll continue to peruse the site but will likely stay in the background for a bit. We don't have a lot of time to get away for the next month or so anyhow.
Cheers
D & T
Your "assumption" that people are meeting each other might need some proof, as maybe that isnt happening (as seen by the fact there no "verification".....
If your female you will have the "option" to meet who you want, if your male that just isnt true, i had been on sites years with no one email or contact, let alone "meeting" anyone....
Hi all
Male 41, i have been in to vaginal fisting for many years while living in England, however here, no one seems to be in to it.
I prefer 1 on 1 (i relax once i know someone), contacts welcome.
L
Anyone here from the old kawartha lakes couples group?the fourm has closed and was curious if anyone was still around
Looking for a girl or another couple to join us for fun. Soft swap see where it goes. She is into girls. I'm 40, she is 35. Clean discrete. No games. Avg couple strong sex drive and she squirts
We are planning to mak a trip to Hedo last week of Nov first week of Dec 15.
From the web site, the event at the time is DPT CIRCUS EROTIQUE through December, 6, 2015.
Let's have a little fun, check out
As the title says. If any couples or single males are interested, send us a message.
Weather is getting warmer outside. Looking for an exhibitionist lady or couple that might want to show this Thursday after 5 p.m.. Would love to watch you flash or play. Love to see someone there!
Hi everyone,
The weather is almost getting nice! Any couples looking for a very discreet and respectful male to either just watch or perhaps join in if everyone is comfortable.
Happy spring everyone!
We will be in PV, would love to meet some like minded friends that may be there as well.
Quote by hotredhead" date="Nov 21, 2014, 10:57:52 AM
I've heard of a new swing club called "Obsession" in Ottawa, but can't for the life of me find out any information. If anyone on here can help me out, it would be much appreciated!!
Hi hotred,
Their web site is . It is a new club on St Laurent Blvd (by Innes Rd). I think it opened in Nov or Dec 2014. It looks promising. We will be checking it out sometime soon.
Let us know what you think if you check it out before us
It looks like obsession posted an ad on here too.. just came across it:
http://www.swingingheaven.ca/showforum-21@club-meets/1/view/1339/new-ottawa-club-obsession-opening-on-friday-the-17th.html
NY Club in Oakville, Friday Feb 20, 2015. Wearing purple flower on my black dress. Please say hi.
NYX Club in Oakville, Friday Feb 20, 2015. Wearing purple flower on my black dress. Please say hi.
Hi I am 20 years old looking to have some fun in a threesome or solo
If you are interested send me a message or a wink thanks
Hi All,
In early March, here in Ottawa, we are running a Book Club meet at Pink Triangle Series (our third in a successful series). The book being discussed is The Lifestyle: The Erotic Rites of Swingers.
I am seeking two couples who are involved in the lifestyle who would like to come and join the discuss, share insight on the Ottawa scene and their experience.
Please drop me a line.
Maybe people just put it in their profile because they read it in so many other profiles.
Maybe single women are perceived to be less threatening. Most guys have the FMF fantasy. Women too!
For me, as the female half, I prefer the idea of no singles, period, couples only. I feel much more stable playing two-on-two. Double sharing, equal giving and taking. Little chance of feelings or wanting more, or losing him to a single woman.
Maybe husbands are worried about losing to a single guy. If you're open to MFM, try to alleviate that concern in your profile.
Meeting in public first gives you safe neutral ground for deciding what's next.
In the long run, if you decide not to go ahead, the other party doesn't know where you live. That could get creepy or unsafe.
Case in point. Look at the one photo of the guy in this profile: Hands and forearms. Nice teaser.
http://www.swingingheaven.ca/members/Hamilton/profile/
Scotsman, some advice to you and every single guy on this site:
WORDS
In the "Description" section, take time to write a good profile. I always look there first, and at the "age" -- I want people similar to me. Others might be like that too.
You're going to have to work a little harder for your encounters. Is it worth it to you to invest 30 minutes to an hour of your time writing this out to potentially get people to play with you?
You could describe:
What you are open to in the bedroom
Sexual fantasies
What you do in your spare time (opens potential for conversation in person, common interests, people might see you as "their kind of person")
Profession/vocation: you don't have to say anything specific, but saying you are professional, hardworking, educated, etc., helps.
Words that speak of your character: respectful, gentle, sensual, intelligent, a blast to be around, dominant, submissive, easygoing... who are you? Let us know.
Say something that makes you sound curious but vulnerable: new to this, eager to explore, not sure where to start, hoping to make contact and meet. Too cock-sure is a bit off-putting. Others feel unsure and curious too, they'll feel more comfortable contacting you if you sound like you feel the same.
Invite others to contact, message, chat with you to see where it might go.
PHOTOS
If you want to appeal to women:
Sure, post photos of your cock, it's expected. We'll look. Make sure you're groomed nicely.
Post a photo of your hands. When a woman sees hands she thinks about all the things they could do to her. Strong hands. Gentle hands. Hands are so sexy!
Bare chest.
Forearms! Wear a long-sleeved shirt, roll up the sleeves and show off your forearms. Women love forearms!
Ass in jeans.
The idea is to make women want you, to feel attracted to you. It's sometimes about nude shots, but sometimes about how attractive you look in clothes or partly undressed.
A partly concealed face shot in the public album. Women will look and wonder what the rest of your face looks like. Mystery is a good thing. They might ask to see your private album.
Hope this helps you and others!
Consider spouse and spouse's feelings first.
Be as honest as possible, though sometimes it takes a while figure out your own thoughts on things. There are several layers of motivation in swinging, and it takes time to know them all.
No bed hopping. We choose long-term contacts.
We're careful about what we say out loud. It's not thoughtful to your own spouse to say something to your play partner that might compare skills or physical appearance. You can't erase spoken words. I don't care what they text. That's private.
The level of play is decided date-by-date. One veto decides.
NON-rules for us:
Some couples only chat together. We chat/text separately. We only share our own chats/texts when there's something particularly hot or funny to share. Chatting is private. Sharing is voluntary.
We prefer to play together at this point, because it's hot to see what the other is experiencing. Eventually I feel playing in different rooms simultaneously would be fine. It has been suggested to play one-on-one and we might consider that too, considering we're exclusive.
Hi all
We are SH South Africa members who are seriously considering a move to fair Canada, looking to make friends and contacts that we may be able to connect with when we come over in September to see what your beautiful country has to offer us.
We are primarily looking at Ontario but would like to talk to anyone there (particularly SA ex-pats) with any advice or tips to offer us (swinging related or otherwise)
We have been in the lifestyle together for about 8 years, so we're looking to meet people with a few years of experience :) though to be clear we're pretty vanilla in our tastes :) and prefer friendship-based connections (not sure how the scene differs in CA to SA )
Looking forward to meeting lots of wonderful new friends here!
Best to all!
Lee (& Matt)
(swinging related or otherwise)
We have been in the lifestyle together for about 8 years, so we're looking to meet people with a few years of experience :) though to be clear we're pretty vanilla in our tastes :) and prefer friendship-based connections (not sure how the scene differs in CA to SA )
Looking forward to meeting lots of wonderful new friends here!
Best to all!
Lee (& Matt) If you still need someone to fuck your girlfriend well you want im in there area
Yes! Within three months of joining we met two couples, and know of several others through our network who have found couples on Swinging Heaven and met in person and played.
I believe it is more difficult for single men, because for some reason couples shut them out. And there aren't very many single women on this particular site.
