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JoeDatti
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 47
Bi-curious Female, 46
0 km · Barrie

About

we are a straight, attractive couple that is looking to have another female join in dominate role play, with strap on play,  cookie worshiping, and Soft swap m-f

To all the Ladies who might be curious about pegging, here’s why I LOVE IT!!

What is it exactly that turns my crank when I peg my PlayToy?

My, my, my...so many things...

The Pleasure Principle...

More than any other reason, I love to peg my man because it brings him so much pleasure. Some time ago (about 10 years) I had the privilege of being introduced by my lover to Pegging.(and I am soooo grateful) I love the cause and effect of watching my man's body, and face react when I penetrate him (especially when I first put it inside of him... I immediately have an orgasm as soon as it goes in his tight, sexy, lil ass). I love the moans and gasps I can elicit. Pegging allows me to actually be inside him, giving him the same pleasure that he gives me, which is a thrill in itself; the only time in sexual play that I get to do that.(besides fisting, which is where I got the nickname) But mostly...I just love to feel the POWER (like a man) of having an enormous Sword just like my Playtoys , and to be in control of my man, putting him in ecstasy with my BIG strap-on cock.

Open up, Baby...

There is a vulnerability that is necessary for a man to be penetrated. I don't really see that with vanilla sex. A softness in his face. His eyes become a little unfocused or they close. I love that vulnerability, that power shift that shows me I am his equal, that he loves and trusts me not to hurt him, (physically and emotionally) and I can do whatever I want to him. I love to see my man purely receiving and open...it is a rare and beautiful sight for a woman to see that in a man. That vulnerability makes me want to gather him in my arms and fuck him sweetly and continuously gazing deep into his eyes until he cums moaning my name with cries of passion, and desire. (which he does so beautifully)

Happy at the Helm...

I LOVE ...running the fuck. I am in control. I can tease him...make love to him...humiliate him...or pound him hard...until he begs for release, or for me to (please) take it out.(hehe) I can change the angle of my tool just a bit, and know it's driving him crazy with pleasure. Or I can stay still, keeping it buried deep inside of him, (like he does to me) driving him crazy with desire, wanting those long sensual thrusts, because... I am the one with the COCK damn it, so tonight I'm the decider, I am running things how I want it!! And YOU are the little BITCH!! So you will do EXACTLY as your told, and take it however I give it. If I hear ANY complaining, I will shove a toy cock in your mouth and make you choke on it BITCH!! because I am running things tonight!! and you WILL do EXACTLY what I tell you to do.

Forbidden Fruit..

I love the taboo aspect of it. I mean, as taboo sex goes; fucking a man in the ass with a strap-on dildo is like the Dubai Tower of illicit sex thrills. But also there is the whole ass thing. Sadly, asses suffer from widespread discrimination. People who are happy to dress up their derriere in sexy articles of clothing designed to attract widespread attention...would never think of undressing that ass and actually taking it for a drive to see what it can do! Asses are often thought of as a dirty, nasty place that serves only one function, period. Well, let's see...dirty? Absolutely. Which is why you wash it really, really well before you start playing with it! Duh, enema! ...Nasty? Yes! Nasty with a capital N and an exclamation mark. N A S T Y!! The juicy, titillating, throbbing, aching, fun kind of Nasty! Serves only one function? Well there are many many gay men who would beg to differ...and a growing number of straight men who have also discovered the joys of anal pleasure, yet keep their desires a secret from their lovers for fear of being labeled gay or bisexual. (which is fine for those who are, but straight men do NOT want to be thought of as either) Yet the numbers are growing, as word gets out about the joys or reversing roles, and having women FUCK like men, and of the pleasure of anal sex , for both men (taking) and women (giving). I have had men treat me with no respect before, and only care about themselves during sexual activities, and thinking of that while preparing to fuck my Playtoy was very therapeutic. Payback is a bitch, and it's our time to NOT BE THE BITCH!!!

Deliciously Dissident...

Flouting intolerant opinions is a hobby of mine. Above and beyond the ass itself, a lot of people have judgments about pegging, from both sides of the dildo. It is generally thought that if you are a man who likes pegging, clearly you must like men too...and if you are a woman who likes pegging, you wish you were a man, and must be a butch who cant be feminine and sexy. Both of those outdated opinions/beliefs however, are based on old stereotypes and ignorance, and hold absolutely no merit. I love flying in the face of all those judgments and doing what I want just because I/we enjoy/LOVE it. Sometimes I think that I gravitate towards kinkier stuff because there is a part of me that WILL NOT stand ANYONE (except my Playtoy) telling me what I should or shouldn't do, most especially in the realm of sexual exploration, and the confines of my bedroom (or our Playroom /dungeon) HeHe. So if people view something as taboo... Then to me/us, damn!! that might be a hot thing to try! I am a bit of a rebel at heart. Does it give me a charge to know that if I told some of my friends about my/our proclivity for pegging, they would be shocked? Indeed it does. Just knowing I/we have that dirty secret no one else knows, gets my panties wet!! (<removed>however has given us an opportunity to share our secret, discreetly/anonymously with others, who have proven that we are not alone in our enjoyment/desire of Pegging.

The Visuals...

The delectable vision of spreading those cheeks apart and sinking my sword slowly into his ass...and watching his face tense, and his eyes disappear (we use mirrors) That, is one of the hottest, most amazingly arousing visuals I have ever seen....like, ever!!! Now I know why some of the kinkier dating sites that have amateur videos are overrun with clips of men holding a video camera pointing straight down, as their cock is sinking deep into their woman, who is on her hands and knees...I get it, guys!! And from a different position, the look on his face when I am thrusting my cock in and out...that surprised naked passion sort of (OMG-what-the-fuck-are-you-doing-to-me? WOW-I-can't -believe-I-love-this) look...it's incomparable. His hands reaching back to pull his ass cheeks apart. Or him riding me and stroking his cock, or watching him fuck his own ass while devouring my sweet, wet, cunnyhole (again mirrors) So many visuals! Who says women aren't as visual as men! If more women tried pegging, perhaps the numbers would change, and relationships wouldn't feel so one sided. Mirror mirror on the wall, who has the greatest strap-on cock of them all? I do that's who, and using a mirror to watch yourself fuck is truly an amazing Visual that gives me a confidence sexually that I never knew existed.

My Pleasure...

Do I get pleasure? Oh yes. Oh God, yes. Dripping throbbing, aching, clenching pleasure...without a doubt. I am very lucky that I can achieve earth shattering orgasms which spray my Man, while I am actually pegging my lover. My strap feels like an extension of my body (rightly so) and I can feel it when he cums, as I'm thrusting my hips, and burying my cock, deep inside his tight, sexy ass. The passion and love we share is all I need. While fucking him, I often spray my juices right into his ass. And often in his face, giving him the female version of a "pearl necklace" The intimacy we have, and the knowledge and skill he has (and has taught me), allows me to achieve orgasm in MANY, MANY unorthodox WAYS... [pegging him, having my nipples sucked, neck licked/sucked, ears sucked//licked/nibbled, body caressed, back rubbed (he does it like he is rubbing my clitoris), toes sucked, and many more ways I never thought possible. When he goes down on me, I achieve an orgasm in about 10 seconds (our record is 5 seconds, and 6 orgasms in one minute, with a spray as the finaly).

Some Lucky Lady...

We have not yet had the pleasure of having another woman join us, but are now VERY INTERESTED in making that happen. I would love to teach someone how to properly use a strap-on on a Man, and we have a smaller cock (that is still bigger than the average penis, that wont hurt him), for her to use, and I know that the Face she will get from him while I am fucking him, will be mind blowing/pussy exploding, and I can't wait to receive that too, while she fucks him. An experience that will give you a chance to feel empowered, confident, in control, SEXY, and possibly give a chance to get some "Payback" to any Man that has ever disrespected you.. My Playtoys ass is going to eagerly suffer the consequences...


Interests

Anal sex
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Age: 26 - 47
Distance: 180 km