New to the site, not the lifestyle. Please bear with us as we build our profile here. 😇

She’s a petite, outgoing bundle of fun. Always inquisitive, often the instigator, and usually the one to ask, “What’s next?”. He’s tall, reserved, and pensive, with a dry wit and mind that’s always plotting the next adventure. Don’t let the initial “couple next door” vibe fool you – there’s a wicked open mindedness boiling just below the surface.

We value and aspire to practice being open to new ideas and not judging others for theirs. It’s not always easy, but we try to live by the rule, “Don’t yuck their yum”. Got a kink? Cool, tell us about it!

As you’ll see in our profile, we float between the swinging and kink communities and have formed great friendships in both. We don’t demand anyone take part in our kinks, but are happy to share if you’re interested!

Who are we looking for?

A few years in this world have taught as not to judge by appearances alone. While some degree of physical attraction is necessary, for us it’s all about finding a mutual connection that has the possibility of building into a friendship.

When we're out escaping our vanilla identities, we love nothing more than meeting new sexy friends for anything from a classy evening at a downtown bar to occasionally getting out on the dance floor. Either way, we are always looking for a fun and sexy energy.

Life is short...And being with non-judgmental people is important to us. So while our kinks are never a requirement and we would never force them on anyone, we will never tolerate being judged for them or judging others.

When it comes down to it, if you can relate to Dan Savage’s concept of “GGG”, we’ll get along just fine :-)

What are we into?

We enjoy a range of play. A full range of play. We can be fun, we can be sensual, we can be kinky, and sometimes you might even find us “WTF??”. You’re just as likely to find us at a lifestyle club as at a kink evening with someone strapped to a St Andrew’s Cross. We’re not saying all those things must happen, because discussion and consent reign supreme, but if you’re interested, ask!

In terms of swinger play dynamics, we’ve come to love everyone together on one bed. We love the term "puppy pile”, just a bunch of sexy naked people not afraid to ask the question “what comes next?”. We’ve also played on separate beds and separate rooms, and they’ve been great fun too.

On the kink spectrum, our biggest passion together is Shibari (rope bondage). Often deeply sensual and connective, it always leads to a fun night in. Our play together can involve a D/s dynamic , sometimes paired with impact (crops, floggers, spanking, etc).

We also love the more sensual side of kink – blindfolds, soft leather cuffs, and sensory play – teasing and exploring the lucky victim edging them towards orgasm. The kind of play that takes time to build and isn’t rushed.

We’re are both on that kinky site if you’d like a little more insight into our kinkier side - happy to share our user names. ;-)

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