Whats better

a one time meeting or an ongoing thing ? 

Discuss ! 

I've had some truly memorable and mutually enjoyable one-time meetings with couples,  but there are two downsides. The first downside is that sex typically gets better as you grow more familiar with a new partner, so a one-time meeting means you're probably not getting the most out of each other owing to lack of familiarity with one another's bodies and personalities.. The second downside is that, on those occasions when the chemistry is great and everyone's having a fantastic time, if you are not going to see them again, it leaves everyone involved wishing they could meet up again.  So, for those reasons, I prefer an on-going friends-with-benefits relationship can grow where one can explore one another more fully and continue to look forward to further fun.  

ongoing - hands down. 

ongoing for sure.

I agree with  Muskokamale. The FWb is awesome, and your right, the more familiar you become the more comfortable it is and one can relax and focus on the enjoyment for  all.

Ongoing for sure. Better rapport with more experience with each other

We would love an on going relationship with a single male, one nighters are fun but we believe what MoskokaMale said. We would like to be able to learn each other and relate as well. Seems every single male we have met gets a partner and then we dont see them anymore...hmm maybe its us LOL