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Societal norms around sexuality

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Why does society shame sexuality? Was talking with a bunch of colleagues about another colleague who is always looking for action and almost everyone was putting that person down,  in a shameful way. I for one think the sluttier the better but it is a view definitely not shared amoug the masses. 

People do seem more open to trying more things nowadays but having various partners is still very much taboo. 

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I agree. But Sexy people have power, they can wield it and use it. Religion definatly plays a role. 

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We live in a very sexually repressed society.  Look at someone too long and they are filing sexual harassment charges.  Comment on a lovely figure and you are a pervert.  Everyone loves sex.  Penthouse did a survey in the early 2000's that showed everyone between the ages of 21-50 have some sort of sexual activity on a weekly basis... with someone or by themselves.  Yet, you can not talk about it?  What's wrong with asking someone for tips on how to do this or that?  You can ask a co-worker what they thought about a movie or how to make a good meat loaf.  But ask them if they had some "fun" this weekend and you are in trouble.  Do we really live in a free society if we are told how to think and what we can or can not talk about?

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Couldn't agree more with ya. I know in my social circles it is taboo to talk about such matters but I will do my part slowly to knock down walls. I'm sure most people think it, heck as a guy we mind bang everyone lol