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Ok, I am just going to put this out there.  Manners are a big thing with me and I think it is with a lot of people on this site, but Have you ever started a conversation with someone, back and forth, then BAM, no reply, not even, sorry you are not what I or we are looking for.  I find that the purpose of manners is key to at least be polite.  I know that we are all not perfect, but is nice to say no thank you or sorry not at this time.  I find that in this day and age we have to be a bit more respectful of the people around us, to be polite and show that not all of us have to be mean and rude.  Being direct is understandable, but to be ignored or just plain cut off off with out explanation, well leaves this individual dumb founded.  Let me know what you think.

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Your comments are exactly on point. Courtesy and respect should be the norm. Unfortunately there is a lack of consideration which seems to be on the rise. All we can do is identify the problem in the hope that some individuals can be influenced to change their behaviour. Thank you for taking the initiative. B
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OMG YES, We recently had this happen, emails flying back and forth, exchanged photos, all seemed to be very excited and then BAM, no reply to our emails, nothing, nada. WOW is that _ucking rude! People have feelings and to just get dumped like that is hurtful and shows NO CLASS. We agree at this point so discouraged with this site.

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We have enjoyed being in the LS for over 3 years now and have learned to grow THICK skin.  We have come to accept that there are various reasons why people disappear after they seem to have a strong interest in us:

-Lost their nerve to carry out plans

-One partner is not aware of what the other is doing

-Fake accounts

-Bad manners

We have found that the best way to approach the LS is that unless we have actually met and had the beginnings of a friendship with someone, we have lost nothing and gained insight into a profile that we need not notice in future.  Take nothing personal....is our advice.

XOXO

M and T