Hello,
I know that we are all adults here. I am new to this site and I just meet someone who wanted to have sex with me in my apartment. However, I wasn't thinking and then I texted this man to meet me in a public setting first, so that I get to know him before we had sex. And it's also for safety reasons as well.
Needless to say that he didn't show up at the appointed time that he suggested. That got me angry because I just wasted my time waiting for him. And I also blocked him from ever texting me again.
My question on this site is, is it proper to meet someone in a public setting first before fucking them in private?
Totally depends on the situation. I've met people at their place (or mine) on a first meet with no issues or worries. You just have to take each situation on a case by case basis.
Always best to meet them first in a public place, there has to be some attraction before you take the next step.
I'd never invite a stranger to my house and I'm a guy.
I did have a lady invite herself to my house and it was 1 in the morning, which I found strange.
I was lonely so I agreed, there was no attraction, she had terrible teeth, so we had a drink and that was it.
Jason
Meeting in public first gives you safe neutral ground for deciding what's next.
In the long run, if you decide not to go ahead, the other party doesn't know where you live. That could get creepy or unsafe.
I believe his response says it all. If he didn't want to meet you in a public place and didn't have the stones to tell you that then you had good reason to be cautious. But don't be angry, be glad. You did the right thing and probability saved yourself a lot of grief. As for the waste of time, that's life unfortunately. I hope it doesn't stop you from trying again. Think of it this way, now you know what to look out for. There are more good people out there then bad, and you now know how to avoid at least some of the bad.
Quote by Unknown Hello, I know that we are all adults here. I am new to this site and I just meet someone who wanted to have sex with me in my apartment. However, I wasn't thinking and then I texted this man to meet me in a public setting first, so that I get to know him before we had sex. And it's also for safety reasons as well. Needless to say that he didn't show up at the appointed time that he suggested. That got me angry because I just wasted my time waiting for him. And I also blocked him from ever texting me again. My question on this site is, is it proper to meet someone in a public setting first before fucking them in private?
Yes, I think getting to meet and know someone first is a great idea. For some, the spontaneity of a meet and sex is an incredible turn on too so its really what it is your want and desires are.
As for the no show, be it this site or the others, there are many members who at the end of the day are just members...they are never going to meet up with anyone. Problem is that they pretend to be something they are not and make arrangements to meet knowing full well they wont. Then as you say sadly you waste your time (and often money) going to the determined place to meet...it sucks...its rude...it shouldnt be.
yes always meet in public first, we will meet at a local club as well that way it is still public and if it all works out, great then you have a place to play
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