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Warming the Bed
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Hey there! Noticed that some members here have been labeled or are labeling couples accounts as fake or misleading by popular opinion! Claiming that because the account doesn't have dick pics or male content aswell as revealed face pics then it must be somewhat disingenuous and or one sided agenda! Not always necessarily true and can clearly be defined if it must? Or should it? it seems like because of the above mentioned discrepancies the burden of proof and purpose is definitely an issue with some and weighing heavily on others! I have started this discussion with an open mind for a positive solution if not conclusions. I suspect our profile could potentially be on the unintentional offenders list? Some people dont give a shit or never noticed and some will have a strong opinion but we need more open minded objectives that will have and provide sugestions for either side of this controversy for both the alleged and the offended! Either way not sure how important it is or the impact it has on the lifestyle and particularly this place but I hope it resonates enough with people to stimulate their views for a healthy debate and  have a positive impact on the world of lifestyle profiles,the real and truthful purposes,agendas and opinions!  Hopefully i have worded this as correctly as it is sincerely 

Warming the Bed
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Your profile has vouches on it, so I doubt anyone would have a legitimate cause for complaint about your profile.  I wish more couples and singles on the site made use of the 'vouch' feature.
-MM

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Quote by MuskokaMale

Your profile has vouches on it, so I doubt anyone would have a legitimate cause for complaint about your profile.  I wish more couples and singles on the site made use of the 'vouch' feature.
-MM

Yes correct and we have had a couple of good experiences with members on here and most of the people are very friendly and very helpful from our personal interactions but the point of the conversation was that not everyone is in the same place with legitimate couple profiles who choose to have their wife only in the media section because they are not intended for 3somes or full couple swap! Basically the hotwife couple seeking well hung stranger fantasy is a personal lifestyle choice between husband and wife is not always 100% taken seriously! Often labeling the hubby as something otherwise! This fantasy is a shared experience for happily married mature couples who make it work for their own personal private reasons and necessities so From personal experience and to be clear on this regardless of vouches it does happen unfortunately and thought it might be worth talking about? No drama or BS intended 
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After almost 20 years of reading between the lines of profiles, I've found a few things.  I think people will just have opinions, and you will always be on someone's shit list.  It's often more a reflection on them than on you.  For example, if someone complains that life is full of nothing but drama...perhaps it's time to consider what they're doing to attract it?  Law of attraction and all.  Just write it with honesty and transparency, show the real you, where you're at in the lifestyle, and let the naysayers tend to their own dramas.


Lack of face pics in your main profile are understandable, but should be available somehow before meeting.  There needs to be some element of trust there.  If you need to avoid ANY connection of your face to a swingers site, you might be better trying out a social meetup or club.  


After looking at your profile, you might consider trying out one of the clubs on singles night.  See what happens?


I think I'm going to make a whole 'nother PSA post about photos.


Mrs. Joyride