I am a single bisexual female that joined this site about a month ago and my mailbox just blew up! I have so many messages sent everyday, that I literally can not keep up. Many go unanswered, and some I forgot to reply back when I have answered. Putting a star beside the message helps a bit....LIE . Some members keep sending messages, even though I haven’t opened the first one they have sent ( those members are the ones I find to be pushy or I get a not so good feeling about and I delete) I get that there really isn’t a lot of single women on this site and when new ones join, it must be a race to get to her first, but it’s pretty overwhelming! 200 different couples or single men messaging in 5weeks! Maybe this is why there isn’t a lot of single women on this site or other sites. We have to keep our guard up as well going into this. We are meeting people alone, not with a partner for that added comfort. We have to vibe it out and hope we meet genuine, respectful people. There is a lot of creeps out there and I have already found a handful of liars on this site. I hope some couples and single men will keep this in mind when trying to contact a single female. Send 1 message and give her time to reply because 15 others sent her a message before you did. If there is no answer after 1-2 weeks, move on! Read her profile and make sure you are what she is looking for. If not, don’t waste your time and READ the next profile.
The people that did take the time to read my profile and wait for me to reply are the reason I’m still on this site. I’ve met a couple sexy and respectful gentlemen on here