Single males

I've been involved in mmf scenarios .And compatibility is very important as the more comfortable you are together with respect of boundaries. You can have a great friendship with great sex.I would like to find one couple for friendship and great fun.

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Westgta1- couldn’t have said it better ourselves.

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As a single guy I'm on the site and in the LS for a few reasons:

• while "single" I'm not always flying solo. I have some single women friends who like to attend events with me, so swapping is still an option, provided there's some mutual interest all around

• some couples (more than some would imagine) like adding a single man to the mix (echoed above by various posters), - I've met some really great couples I'm still friends with through the LS

• I like hanging out with LS'ers and kinksters. While those are two different groups, there is some overlap of people across groups.

• People like my rope work. I'm happy to share, let people try it out, etc.

Westga1, so I assume you've personally talked to every single male on this site... Your statement of "fact" is very broad to say the least. If you made a statement like that towards a race, religion or a persons sexuality you'd be run out of Dodge yet you can lump all single men onto one category and that's just fine. Basically you're saying that all single men are assholes or dogs but as soon as they become part of a couple they are "decent folk". It must be so nice for you to be you....

We really like adding single guys to the mix. It’s just a different dynamic… in this lifestyle I’d say single men play a very important role.

We meet with a lot more single guys than we do couples.

We also enjoy MFM and are always on the look out for a REAL/ RELIABLE single male. We know from experience that the good ones are out there!

It’s a long process but it’s well worth it when we finally find a good match.

I have been fortunate enough to have been in two mfm experiences. They were both extremely erotic and pleasurable for all involved. Boundaries were respected and discretion was assured.

Not quite on topic, but I’m a single reliable guy. Feel free to message me ladies/ couples

We've had a few encounters with single guys. The wife enjoys the company of two men sometimes. We've a had a couple of bad experiences, but most have been good, and one has been outstanding. If you can find that one guy that both of you feel comfortable with, then the experience can be mind blowing.

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We've had a few encounters with single guys. The wife enjoys the company of two men sometimes. We've a had a couple of bad experiences, but most have been good, and one has been outstanding. If you can find that one guy that both of you feel comfortable with, then the experience can be mind blowing.

I totally agree.

Well said. Something for a newbie to consider for sure...which I am. Purple is a lovely colour by the way.

Lose a spouse in a heartbeat, may look at things a bit differently. Happens in the blink of an eye.

we enjoy the company of a real, respectable young male for ongoing fun.

Any out there who want to chat?

Check us out and leave a face pic / means of communication and we’ll go from there.

For me, I am recently single (divorced) my former partner was not interested in this type of activity. So now I am seeking experienced couples or singles to learn from and experience this new vast experience and am about to indulge in. I have no interest in another relationship at this time but when that time does come about I hope to have gained enough knowledge from this adventure to possibly find/bring my or a potential new partner into this type of lifestyle.

Despite all the positive response to single males in this thread, most couples do not want to be contacted by them. Most swinger couples are here to, surpisingly, interact with other swingers. I am not saying single males should not be allowed here, but they are not a priority on this site yet occupy the most bandwidth for how much they are in demand.

We gave up on single males because they didn't behave properly and weren't worth the hassle. The bad behaviour was pretty consistent among them. Our friends have the same experiences and complaints.

It seems that the stressing single males to not message invites more messages. Then there are the fake "bi" guys who just want to fuck your wife or the single g uys with the phantom wife; the poor lady never has time to chat or talk and always has something come up just before meeting and feels but so she lets her partner go on to play alone with us. We also do not view persistent messaging as a turn on. "Single" guys that are partnered and trying to find something on the side and figure Swingers are slutty and easy targets. These are just a few examples - and all of them demonstrate poor adherence to consent courtesies right at the start. Red flags come up easy and constantly with single males and we don't want to waste our free weekends, that are few and far between, on this when the odds of having a good time with couples is much higher.

Supply and demand - too much supply usually means low quality which floods our inboxes with desperate guys with no game that are not very self-aware. Compare this to Unicorns who are in small supply and can get what they want simply by checking their inbox.

We found that men in couples behave much better which means I don't have to act as a security guard. We just select the option to not allow messages from single males.

There is a way to block what you do not want, the more that block what's not wanted is an easy deterrent to keep the unwanted from contacting. Everyone has a preference, what might not be yours is certainly someone else's.

Some parties have differential pricing for single guys or no singles invited clubs charge premium price discouraging attendance. Couples are filtering out single from contacting them. only trend I have noticed if you are a single guy being hexiflex helps straight is not your friend.

NOT !!!