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Not everyone is Mr and Miss Canada

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Looking at some of the comments where people have said the females look hot but the males have let themselves go, sometimes the men can't help it.  My husband quit smoking 7 years ago , he put on allot of weight and has been struggling to lose it all . He is on the keto diet and has cut allot of foods from his diet. He exercises every chance he gets , there are some people out there that cant help get overweight , whether or not its eating habits or problems with their bodies. Lets not be to judgemental here and just because they don't look good doesnt mean you should ignore them and\make rude remarks about them .  I don't think of myself as Miss canada , I have my fair of share of problems , I have M.D I live with it everyday i get tired quite easily but it doesn't matter to me . My husband and I want to share our love with someone else , to see what what we see not the judgemental people on here saying he's to fat and your hot and we only want you not him. Im sorry we are a package deal . We are all on here looking for that that person or that couple to share .

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everybody has their preferences when it comes to partners.  me I prefer curves.  the wife likes a broader spectrum when it comes to that.  the big thing is whether we click personality wise or not.  a person might look like your ideal partner but when you meet them It's a different story.  and the other end of it is finding someone and even though they seem totally wrong  physically you like them so much all they do is turn you on.


by the way we have seen both you and your husband and there is nothing wrong with either of you.  pretty cool he quit smoking hope he can stay away from them.  

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We agree, not everyone is Mr. and Mrs Canada.  One thing we've learned is to put as much of yourselves out there as possible up-front.  So maybe put some of the pics of Mr (no face) in your public gallery too, rather than reveal him only after some surface level interest is made.  It will save you lots of false-starts/false-interest and then disappointment.  There are lots of people that love bigger bodies, with him out in the open they will surely find you that way! 

... and for those that take the time to make negative comments on your photos... either report them, or better yet, leave their comments there for everyone else to see what ass-holes they really are. smile

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Well i would put him out there , but he is embarassed about his weight and will hide himself , 

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Well i would put him out there , but he is embarassed about his weight and will hide himself , 

 Hey guys komo here. I'm an over weight guy myself. I can fully identify with him but at the same time the people that know me know I basically workout every day. From my point of view, if we all click then perfect and if not oh well. Next... yes people can be crewl on here just as in life. Just think of it this way... how the hell did I make you insecure? . 

Just remember that fun comes in all shapes and sizes and you never know the friends you'll meet. ✌

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In this lifestyle, I don't want Mr & Mrs Canada, Barbie, instagram models and magazine "great" looking...curves, scars, wrinkles, stretchmarks & personalities of people that make them down to earth, fun to be around & accepting of themselves and others are exponentially more attractive than just great looks. 

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went on keto myself...lost quite a bit...2 yrs and holding although I have been camping for a bit and have cheated I have found it is easy to go back to keto...takes time...tell him to hang in there