My wife and I are new to this like many others. We're trying to decide where is best for us to jump into the lifestyle... Personal ads or clubs? Hoping that someone here can give us some personal experience that we might learn from. Thanks and any insight is appreciated!!!
Me and my husband like the personal couple together better then jumping into parties because its easier to set rules and get to know people easier. quiet small settings like hotel can be more comfortable to get use to the lifestyle better
Just had my first groupplay experience with a couple we've developed a friendship with (awesome). We had the idea that they may be interested, but we weren't sure how to get it started. What ultimately ended up working for us was bringing out this card game called Intimate Combinations. It's not like Cards Against Humanity, it's a game that entirely involves sexual exploration, but it has class and eases you into the process really smoothly.
My wife and I actually jumped in with both feet and went to a hotel take over. We've never been to a club, or had any type of lifestyle experience. The people we met were respective and the whole thing was a lot of fun. We got to see a lot of seriously sexy stuff. That alone got us hooked. : ) To us, a hotel takeover takes away the stress of being at a club. I know. We've never been to a club so how do we know, right? Good point, but it worked for us.
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