We are new to all this as a couple. My 1st marriage ended because he got attached and chose her and got her pregnant, so my now husband ( of 12 years) and I have started talking about dipping our toes in. I really enjoy being with other women and he wants me to have that, but we as a couple are looking for another male (maybe couple) but very overwhelming on where to start. So many questions, like:
- How do you do meet ups, where do you go to have hook ups ( our home is off limits- 2 teenager home bodies here lol). I am not comfortable just yet going to clubs with everything going on.
- What do you do after the fun? Do you just say thanks and leave?
- Are there red flags we should be looking for?
This is something we have talked about and feel we are in a good place to take this step.
Help please 🥰