Hello everyone,
Bit of a long post but wanted some expert advise.
I'm a VERY open minded husband that is a bit kinky. I've been to clubs but have never swapped partners (this is all before my wife). My wife is a lot more conservative, unless she's drinking. if she's drinking, I've seen glimpses of her wild side. We're on a bit of a hampster wheel (10 years of marriage) where the sex is mundane, and uninspired. I'm still kinky, but maybe have lost a bit of the confidence I once had. I'd like to see my wife be naughty again (like when we were dating) and in the past few years or so I've been absolutely fascinated with the idea of another man helping me get my wife off (wife sharing). I'm not into the cuckold thing (I don't think?) But like the idea of watching her be touched and even pentrated. However, I don't think she's there.
I was thinking recently, what about a sensual or tantric massage, provided by another man? This would be a "surprise" for her as we have an anniversary coming up. Point is, and maybe this is far too devilish, maybe with the combination of alcohol and an erotic massage by another man (while I watch) might unleash a bit of the naughty side of her. I'm not sure where to ask though, or even if this is kosher? I was thinking we could call someone into a hotel room (to mainain confidence). I'm open to paying for the service but don't know how to even start, or what service would ease us into it. If things happened beyond the hands, I'd be ok with that, but who knows, it could go poorly too!
Admittedly, whenever I offer to do a full body massage, she's never able to completely enjoy it. I can do some light releaf when she needs but I don't have the knowledge or expertise for anything advanced, and if I ask her to get naked she figures I'm trying to take it somewhere 😄
Maybe I'm trying too much trickery here, what are everyone's thoughts and suggestions?
