We're going to M4 this Saturday the 31st for the Sexy Bunny and Yss party. Is anyone else going or considering it? Would love to meet some new friends. 

First of all, you are entitled to your opinion and I do respect everyone’s. 

Secondly, you have proven my point about judging. You automatically say I am cheating? You have no idea of what my situation is, yet you jump to that conclusion. Contempt prior to investigation is not a trait I would wish to have. 

I also am certainly not patting my back about anything. My situation is not of my choosing nor would I wish on anyone. I am simply being honest. 

Thank you for your comments and I wish you all only the very best. 

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Hi. We are a couple who are new to the lifestyle and want to take things slow but very excited at the same time. Looking for a no pressure couple with bi/f straight /m OR single bi/f bi/f2 couple. Not interested in single guys whatsoever. Looking in the Freddy Beach area or close by. Summer...bikinis and no tops are coming real fast 

looking always for a nice load to swallow

Heading to Breathless Riviera Maya 24-29 March. Anyone else going during that time? Anyone been there?

Hi, Tomorow afternoon M4?

love to meet u

That's too bad, you could always try other swingers groups such as Nakedplace (I think) and Swinglifestyle. You may get better results (I had good results when I lived in Toronto).

I'm looking for a female workout buddy in Guelph at a GoodLife. I'm not Barbie but maybe in a few months we can work into beach bods lol. Please be around my age group from 35 to 55. I would like meet up from a few times a week to daily. My schedule is somewhat flexible. 

Heading to Desire in May, anyone else heading there at that time?

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Unless I am misreading you seem to be patting yourself on the back for being open and honest with people on this site about cheating on your wife. In our opinion, you would be far better off being open and honest with your wife about being on this site.  For a good many couples on here, cheating be the first thing that would put you firmly on the block list. My wife and I have enjoyed the company of single men in the past and never with anyone cheating on a spouse. Being a swinger does not mean that we don't value integrity and honesty. If that makes us judgemental on this subject then guilty as charged.?

Good morning everyone; our Swinging Heaven lifestyle friends and family. It is with heasy hearts that we regret to inform all of you, of our decision to leave the swinging lifestyle community. We will instead be focussing all of our energy on our marriage and family.  It is a Decision that has not been made lightly as you have all been a HUGE  part of our lives for the last seven years or so!  We thank each of you for the many exciting adventures that we have shared and experienced with you over these years. So much fun and  excitement.  We have been blessed to make so many friends. We will of course miss the CLUB‘s, the House Parties, and private events, as well as the one on one get-togethers with other couples and singles at each other‘s homes.  We would like to invite all of you to consider coming out and partying with us one last time on Saturday, February 17 at our  "Sexy in Red" house party. After that we will no longer be swinging, and will remove our photos and profile information from the site.  It would mean a lot to us to have the opportunity to properly say goodbye to those of you that we have gotten to know over the years. We will miss you all greatly!

Please feel free to contact us If you would like more details, or would like to say goodbye. Thank you so much, 
respectfully yours,

Brian and April

I get that there are a multitude of men on here that may or may not be sincere, but are there any woman or couples that are? I have tried to follow some advice and have been 100% open and honest on my profile, but honesty it seems is a detriment on this site. I either get people who only want pics or people that want to bash me because my wife is not involved. I am being judged! On a swingers site! I guess that because I am not your typical guy here looking for only one thing, people don't know how to respond. I was so happy to find this outlet but that has now turned to disappointment. I have been to the clubs but at this stage the comfort level is not there, so my only option is to chat a bit here with the hopes of a face to face coffee mtg. with those I may connect with. It seems most are happy to stay in their basement and take care of themselves.

Well I would buy (unless you already have)

Sex toys. Realistic cocks and role play. Have her ride the cock on the floor while she sucks your cock. Ask her how she likes it and ask if it turns her on. You can do other things like have her wear a blindfold and pretend she’s being done by you and another guy. Have her suck your cock and the realistic one, then lay her down and fuck her with the cock while she sucks on your. If you keep doing these role play she’ll be so turned on by the thought in no time

With so many if us away being snowbirds......wonder where everyone is in Florida.

Anyone heading to Club M4 afternoon ?

Like the title says, I'm a newbie at all this but am really excited to get started making new friends and acquaintances.  I'm also a bit shy when it comes to introducing myself but I know I've got to bite the bullet and get on with this.

If anyone has any suggestions on getting more known, then please, could you let me know?

Thanks to all and have fun, people. 

looking to meet couples and women  always wanted to try dogging

Hitting M4 for what should be an amazing New Years party. If you are there and see us feel free to say hi and introduce yourself 

interested in a single male coming over for fun?

I see that someone added Puslinch as a known dogging area, good to see. For years that particular area was known for just men getting some gay stuff I guess. As a dog walker in the area I noticed over the past couple of years a lot more couples have been spotted there. Heard the term "dogging area" been used to describe this place. If you fancy trying your luck this is what I know. To get there 401 to Townline Rd, go South to the lights, turn left (east) follow to the Stop sign, left at the sign (RR32) then gravel Carpark on right. Enter Puslinch Tract (E Cambridge) It's a disused quarry used by cyclists and dog walkers mainly. Usually just after 111am most days you will see single men walking around and then disappear off the path and into the tree, that is a big indication that they are looking for fun. So lunch time is popular or sunset. Enter park, follow path to the left then just as the path bends right go into the tree'd area directly above, that where it happens in there. Were going there as soon as we get a dry warmer day. Enjoy. Onthefence

Travelling solo in Feb. plan on riding Louise, Kicking Horse and Sunshine. Hope to meet some good people along the way. Contact for more info. Travel partners welcome.

as a single male, we probably get a bad name for being too pushy, or being no shows etc.  But overall, just difficult to find attractive coup,es searching for a single male.  The pool of single males is likely pretty deep.  I try to stand out by actually being someone of my word, being open, being sane and most of all respectful.

I find that it's much easier to meet real people at a club. Somewhere like M4 where they have something for everyone. 

Interested in hearing where are some local favourite spots to head too! I have a few of my own that I would love to share

Any couples visiting Nassau Bahamas Dec 27th - Jan 3rd ?

Driving while Jerking it is the best way to wake yourself up if you are tired behind the wheel. Works like a charm. 

I am interested