small print first: 

**We're not looking for single men, thanks.

**Discretion is very important to us.

**We only communicate together.

**All pictures on our profile are current and accurate representations of what we look like IRL

Edit Nov 2025: We're in the process of replacing our pictures so that they are all from the last 8 mo or so.

**We don't always respond to massages quickly, but we will get back to you if we are interested.

Thanks for reading! On to the good stuff:

We're a friendly, fitness-oriented couple in our very early 50's. We'd like to connect with couples or with women who are into both of us. We're not good with extended chats online, so if this is your thing we probably aren't for you. We're much more interested in connecting in person and can usually make time for a vanilla, no-pressure, IRL date to see if we're a match. We love taking pictures, but we've found that he only way to gauge mutual attraction is to meet in person. Besides, meeting new people and making new friends is half the fun!

We play together and in the same room. Recently, she has been embracing her girl love and really enjoys playing with other enthusiastic women. He is straight but not uptight about it. Our preference is to play as a group rather than just swap partners and for everyone to be as involved in the action as they would like to be. We do have our own turn-ons and we're interested in hearing about yours because something new is always fun!

We have the basic profile here so it's not easy for us to initiate messages. If you're interested in connecting, please start things off if you can. We'll likely have to switch to a different app to keep the conversation going. We're here to make connections, so please only get in touch if you're open to meeting soon. And guys,... please checked with your partner to see if she is also interested in meeting us before you get in touch.

Because we've been asked this question a lot: erotic photography has been our hobby for a long time and we do take all of our own pictures. We've only posted a very small sampling here and if you're just here for the pics, find Russ on blue sky (loverefined) or fet life (Russ_Refined).

Thanks for looking,

R&L