Hello!

We have been married for 20 years and have historically dated solo outside our marriage, but are dipping our toes into meeting like-minded and similarly situated couples together. We are both well-educated and professionally employed and lead busy lives with careers, kids and finding time for ourselves when we can. In this economy, time is our most precious resource and we will be very intentional with where we choose to invest.

We prefer to connect with people in our general age range, so mid-30s to early 50s, and who don’t make this their entire identity. We are looking to augment and add to our lives, and this is merely one part of it. Our vanilla interests include the arts in general and theatre specifically, international cuisine, and getting five episodes deep into a new show before realizing we both hate it but neither of us said anything because the other person might have liked it. The latter was a poor investment of time but we learn from our mistakes.

We are new to meeting people as a couple so we might move a bit slower than most, but we are moving forward :) We see ourselves as a typical couple leading busy and fulfilling lives and are interested in couples in the same boat who we can connect with on a human level. This isn’t to say that we are opposed to solely some carnal fun :)

We are a mixed couple and don’t have preferences with who we might connect with in that regard. We don’t have perfect bodies and aren’t expecting others to have them either. Physical attraction is important as is a decent cerebral connection. Be fun and interesting and have things to say that go beyond talking about the LS and we will be off to a good start :)

Thank you for all the inbounds from single men, but that’s not what we are looking for, nor is she.

Will continue to update this as we go!