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Club M4 Valentine’s Day Party Saturday Night Feb 11th

2 GRAND PRIZE DRAWS

 

Join us for a fabulous Valentine's Day Party. We will have draw prizes including 2 Great Grand Prizes:

 

1) A Naughty In N'awlins Convention Package for their Famous Swingers Convention in New Orleans (July 5th to 9th) Valued at $ USD   

 

2) A free one-night voucher to use our exciting new Luxury private rental play room for you and your intimate friends. Available for one time use during club hours only RESERVATION REQUIRED. 

 

Love and sex are in the air at Club M4’s Valentine’s Ball! It’s an intimate night for meeting other sexy couples who are looking for a fun and hot erotic night! This is the event to wear your sexy Valentine’s Day outfit, because other than your bedroom where else would you wear it?   

  

Couples $ *

Single Females are Free*

 *Club M4 Membership Required $40 Annually  

 

Club M4

1989A Dundas Street East,

Mississauga, Ontario

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Wet T-Shirt Contest Wednesday Evening Sept 21st Hosted By: Love Shop

 

Ladies sign up for Club M4’s first Wet-T-Shirt Contest! Bring your favorite WHITE T-Shirt and get ready to get wet. We do have some T-shirts available you can borrow if you do not have one.

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Love Shop will be sponsoring the event and providing the prizes. They will have some grand prizes, but each girl who participates will receive a prize. Guys we will also be looking for the squirters to get these sexy ladies wet.  Girls if you want to participate start signing up now at trischjerry or ClubM4 profile on this site so we can put you on the list.

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We expect a fabulous turn-out so don’t miss out on this fun party!  After the contest feel free to stay and play.

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Couples $40*

Single Males $80*

Single Females Free*

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*Club M4 Membership Required ($40 Annually)

Club M4, 
1989A Dundas Street East
Mississauga, Ontario

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Descending Into Darkness- Special Event Saturday Afternoon July 30th (3pm to 7pm)

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Our Blackout parties have been an exciting new addition to our regular themes and the attendance has been fantastic! Many willing and interested attendees are unable to make our monthly evening event therefore we are holding a special afternoon party on Saturday July 30th. For those who just want to check it out and are not sure of the concept yet, the library bar will also be available for play and will only be dimly lit. The backroom play areas will continue to be dark. Club Rules will still be in force as nothing will be done without consent, no matter how light or dark it is. No always means No. We will be providing glow sticks to identify males and females as well as extra sticks (no pun intended) to define play parameters such as bi-sexual and anyone can touch boundaries. Staff will be monitoring the areas with their night vision goggles. Yes, it will look like a scene from a science fiction movie, but it will be fun! Cum out, check it out and have fun at Club M4! We didn’t want to leave you out in the dark about this special event (Or maybe we did!)

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No obligation to participate and everyone is welcome to attend.

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$40 Couples*

$100 Single Males*

Free For Single Females*

*$40 Yearly Club M4 Membership Required

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Club M4

1989A Dundas Street East,

Mississauga, Ontario

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We have a great long weekend lineup at Club M4 this Weekend and It starts Thursday night.

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Club M4 Canada Day Super Party Thursday June 30th (9pm to 3am)

Celebrate Canada Day with a BANG at M4. Whether it be a twosome, a threesome, a foursome, or an all-out gangbang, it will be another sizzling hot and sexy night at M4. We expect close to 300 people so don't miss out on the fun as you start your long weekend playtime.

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*Couples-$

*Single Males $

*Single Females Free

*Club M4 Membership Required

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Naughty and Sexy Canada Day Afternoon Play Party Friday July 1st (3pm to 7 pm)

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The long weekend is finally here and it's time to party! Cum out to M4 for some naughty and sexy fun in the afternoon! We expect a great turnout for this afternoon play party as most people are not working that day.

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*Couples $

*Singles Males $

*Single Females Free

*Club M4 Membership Required

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Friday Night The Fun Continues With M4's Threesome Fridays

This is one of our most popular nights. The night is full of energy & hot people!

Couples $40*

Free for Single Females*

Single Males $100*

*Club M4 Membership Required

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Club M4 Sexy Plus BBW Saturday Afternoon Party July 2nd (3pm to 7pm)

Join us for our next Sexy Plus BBW afternoon play party. This is the most voluptuous play party in the Toronto area. There are always lots of sexy ladies looking for single guys and couples to come out and join them.

Couples-$ *

Single Males $ *

Single Females Free*

*With valid Club M4 membership

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Club M4 Mini Skirt Saturday Night July 2nd (3pm to 7pm)

Ladies show off your long, sexy, beautiful legs by raising your hemline to the limit. How high can it go? For an even sexier look, leave the panties at home!

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Couples $60*

Free for Single Females*

With Valid Club M4 Membership* ($40)

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Club M4’s Ladies Choice Gang Bang Event Sunday July 3rd @ 3pm Sharp

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Eight wonderful women are our special guests to have their ultimate fantasy fulfilled!!! Couples & Singles are welcome to attend, voyeur & join in, there will be a full house, so arrive on time!!

There will be a Meet & Greet in the Library Lounge between 3-3:45pm. This will be much like Speed Dating, so Fellas dress to impress (no towels till 4pm!!) and briefly introduce yourself to the Ladies Choice women for the opportunity to earn a wristband. These are your invitations to play with the women with the matching band. Please arrive On Time and don't monopolize any one woman.

Each woman will have a Spotter (who will ensure condoms are in use, boundaries are respected), and each have their own designated area. Show your wristband to the spotter to participate, and please respect that the rules for each woman will vary.

Although it is a multiple-partner fantasy, some may want several men all at once, some may prefer one at a time, just follow their Spotter for guidance. The areas will be in the open & semi-private areas, still leaving the bedrooms free for 30min closed door play for those not in the official event.

Couples $40*

Single Men $100*

Ladies No Charge*

(*with valid M4 Membership Card)

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That ends this blockbuster weekend. We hope you will be able to attend your favorites as I am sure we have at least one that will be appeal to you. We look forward to seeing you this weekend!.

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GREAT NEWS FROM CLUB M4 ON VALENTINE'S DAY PLUS A GIFT

 

Happy Valentine's Day everyone. Here is some great news! Club M4 will reopen again on Thursday Feb 17th at 3pm for our afternoon party! Here is some information we would like to share with you.

 

1) Club M4 will reopen at 25%capacity (155 people).

2) We will return to our normal hours.

3) Dancing will be allowed again on the nights we have a DJ.

4) Proof of double vaccination are still required until March 1st. 

5) Masks are still required (unless drinking or playing). 

 

Here is the Club M4 Weekend Event Lineup

1) On Thursday & Friday we have our Afternoon after-work parties.

2) Sunday Night is our big Super Party & everyone is welcome.

3) Saturday Afternoon we will be having our BBC play party 3-7pm

4) Sunday Afternoon Fetish Fantasy party takes the spotlight 3-7pm

5) On Monday Afternoon it will be our Family Day Play Party 3-7pm 

 

Our Valentine's Day Gift To You 

As promised we have added 3 months to everyone's membership (active members) including VIP's. This is our Valentine's gift for all your devotion & patience during these 2 turbulent years. Our members are the best!                                         

 Pre-Paid Reservation Options Are Still Available For Friday & Saturday Nights to Guarantee Your Spot, Just Click on the Reservation Link on the ClubM4 web site

                                                                          

 

 

Threesome Friday Feb 18th  

Couples $40 Single Males $

*Single Females are Free

*Valid Club M4 Membership Required

 

Saturday Night Feb 19th Mardi Gras 

 

*Couples Are $

*Single Females are Free

*Valid Club M4 Membership Required

  

Club M4

1989A Dundas Street East,

Mississauga, Ontario

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Correction we (Club M4) will be open on Thursday Feb 17th as the government gave us an earlier opening date.

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Hi Everyone,

As you probably already heard, Premier Ford announced that all bars, restaurants, sex clubs and bathhouses will be shut down at midnight for at least 21 days commencing tomorrow (Tuesday Jan 4th) night at midnight. We will be having our last party from 3pm to 11pm. Covid-19 has again upset our lives with the Omicron variant. We realize it sounds like we are starting this tiresome Pandemic all over again; however the good news is that Omicron is not as lethal as first predicted. It is however very contagious, therefore we must follow the guidelines the government has set up as they attempt to control the spread of this virus. We feel confident that this lockdown will not be as long as the last one. Once we receive the green light to re-open we will notify you via email and here on the Menage Site. There have also been indications that after this Omicron variant passes that this might wipe out the entire Pandemic, but we won't get too optimistic about that until we see how this all plays out. Thank you all for your patience and devotion to the club and hopefully we will be back sooner rather than later.

All memberships will be extended to cover the duration of the lockdown.

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CLUB M4 Glamour & Glitz New Year’s Party 3pm-11pm 

Couples & Single Females Only 

 

First, we want to apologize for the changes we have had to make to our New Years Eve Party.  After being closed last year, our PLAN was to make this the best New Years ever.  But, as Mike Tyson said, "everybody's got a plan.....then you get punched in the face."

 

So, after getting punched in the face by Omicron we have decided to get up off the canvass and see if we can put together a New Years celebration that will put a smile on people's faces.

 

We all know the new limitations: 

1) Close at 11pm

2) Stop serving at 10pm

3) No dancing

4) Ugh!!!!

 

When we heard about the new restrictions our thoughts were to cancel the event.  Why go through all the work and expense when you’re not ringing in the new year??

 

But the more we mulled it over the angrier we got.  New Years 2020 was a sad affair.  At midnight Matt called Rich and said, guess how many people are in the club.  How many he asked? "Two. Sara and me.... Rich replied: "Well, another 611 people and we will be at capacity..." It's depressing just remembering it. 

 

But this isn't 2020.  We are open, albeit with limited hours, but we are open! 

 

Let’s do everything that we were going to do, only pretend that we've set our clocks ahead by three hours.  A little role playing for the evening!

 

Here's the NEW YEAR'S PARTY PLAN:

 

1) Open continually from 3pm to 11pm.

2) Limo service to and from all the local hotels

3) A welcoming glass of Champagne upon arrival. 

4) Appetizers from 3:30 to 5:30

5) Dinner from 6:30 to 8:30

6) New Years Countdown at 9pm with Champagne Toast, we will pretend it's midnight.

7) Party Favors

8) Raffle at 6:30 for a Couple’s Package to the Naughty In N'awlins Swingers Convention July 6-10th, 2022 (Valued at $ USD)

9) Raffle at 9:30 for a $ USD Resort Voucher for Hedonism 2 (Jamaica)

10) Entertainment all day long including demonstrations on the St. Andrew Cross, Rope Play, Burlesque, Hoop Demos and so much more. 

11) Last but not least.....ALL DAY PLAY!

Instead of feeling sorry for ourselves we've got to revel in what we have! 

And with all respect to Mike Tyson:

 

That's OUR PLAN!!!!!

 

PRICES: $120 Couples, $20 Single Females Reservations NOT Required.  *Club M4 Membership Required $30 Per Year.

 

Instead of feeling sorry for ourselves we've got to revel in what we have! 

 

And with all respect to Mike Tyson:

 

That's OUR PLAN!!!!!

 

                                                                   

Club M4

1989A Dundas Street East,

Mississauga, Ontario

(Removed)

   

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Trisch & Jerry’s Sunday Afternoon Play Party Sept 12th

TRISCH’S BIRTHDAY BASH DTF (3:00PM TO 7:00PM

(Also the 2nd & 4th Sunday of every month)

Proof of full vaccination required for entry

FOR MORE GANG BANG ACTION YOU HAVE CUM TO THE RIGHT PARTY

FABULOUS COUPLES GRAND PRIZE DRAW FOR:

A Vacation Voucher of $ USD for Hedonism 2 (Jamaica)


PREPAID RESERVATIONS ARE REQUIRED TO GUARANTEE YOUR SPOT AS THIS WILL BE A SOLD

OUT PARTY SO RSVP & BOOK NOW We only have a capacity of 153 people so book now.

3 EASY WAYS TO MAKE PAYMENT:

1) Call the Booking line for Trisch & Jerry’s party only at and we can take your credit card number over the phone (No Texts Please)

2) Email transfer: Send the money to Include the following security question: What is your favorite club: Answer: ClubM4 also please add your first names and email address, so we know who is sending the money.

3) Club M4 Online Ticketing-Check Club M4 site for ticketing tab.

*Couples-$

*Single Males $

*Single Females Free

*Club M4 Membership Required (Add $30 to your amount if you are a first timer or if you have a expired membership card)


This is Trisch's Birthday Bash and afternoon play party so we know it's going to be another very busy and sexually active afternoon. We will have lots of fun prizes to draw courtesy of Love Shop. AS PART OF OUR Trisch's Birthday celebration we also have a special draw for couples for a Vacation Voucher of $ USD for Hedonism 2 (Jamaica). This is still the most popular, busiest and longest running afternoon play party in the lifestyle.

Hopefully you can join us at friendliest and most popular afternoon play parties in the lifestyle. Our parties cater to single females and females within the couples that are looking to play with multiple guys so single guys are actually sought after for our events. We also have many couples attending looking for other couples so it’s a win win situation for all. These events are also ideal for those who enjoy daytime play or who are unable to make it out to club events. The afternoon delight parties are for couples, single males and single females and they are fun afternoons. Our venue includes 5000 square feet of play area, showers, towels, lockers and locker attendant, condoms and lots of fun. For the active and adventurous swinger there are a variety of scenarios that can be enjoyed and viewed at our party. They include, threesomes, foursomes, gangbangs, girl on girl play and of course couple to couple swapping. Some prefer to use the private rooms, while others enjoy the open areas for others to join in. It’s intimate, it’s friendly and there is no waiting to play. These parties are becoming more and more popular as the lifestyle continues to grow. We generally get well over 140 people attending. This is a fun event you won’t want to miss. RSVP NOW.

For More Information or to RSVP

E-mail Trisch or Jerry @ trischjerry profile on this site.

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Club M4 Closed For 28 Days Starting Oct 10th 2020

Based on the Provincial Order issued on October 9, 2020 we will be closed  for 28 days starting Oct 10th 

Since we reopened on July 31, 2020 we have had an outstanding safety record.  We have more than complied with all the safety measures the Province has required and to our knowledge there are zero cases linked to M4.  

We are of course disappointed to have to temporarily close but will reopen the first day that we legally can.  The good news for us is that in the last two and a half months we have learned how to run the business in a way that recognizes that the world has changed.  It may be years before the old club model of hundreds of people packed on to a dance floor comes back.  The M4 of late summer 2020 may be the new norm.    

But whatever it is we will be back and again offering consenting adults a place to meet and have fun.  See you in 28 days!

The M4 Team

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WEEKDAY PLAYDAYS HAVE RETURNED TO CLUB M4

Now Open Monday To Friday Afternoon (3pm to 7pm)

FOR YOUR SWINGING ENJOYMENT

This gives you the perfect opportunity to leave work early or even drop in after work

for an afternoon encounter before going home.

COUPLES $20

SINGLE MALES $60

FREE FOR SINGLE FEMALES



Club M4

1989A Dundas Street East,

Mississauga, Ontario

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Hello Everyone,

 

Unfortunately due to the ongoing concern of Coronavirus (COVID-19) Club M4 will temporarily close immediately.   We apologize if you have not received timely updates from the club on its closure.   We are not health professionals and did not want to inundate you with more information, nor do we want to add to this already escalating situation.   As such we leave it to you to obtain the best possible information regarding your health and personal situations. 

 

The club has become very personal, for us and many of you who attend, as such we want to commit to you that we will be back.   We are committed to returning as soon as we can, however due to both Toronto and Peel regional health mandated shut downs, we will abide by those requirements and listen to the requests of our elected officials and be closed as appropriate until we are told otherwise. 

 

In the meantime we will continue to have contact with you online through our social site ( ) and send you updates as soon as we have any ourselves.

 

We thank you again for all your support and look forward to being able to see you as soon as possible,

 

Rich, Matt, Sara, Jerry, Trisch. 

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CLUB M4's SPECTACULAR 5 DAYS TO NEW YEAR'S EVE LINEUP (Dec 27th to Dec 31st)

An Entire 5 Days Devoted to Play. It Doesn't get better than this!

We have 5 full days of parties and themes which will lead us into our big New Year's Eve Bash. Many people will be off work on the week of New Year's and will be looking for some extra play time so our 5 day schedule is sure to accommodate everyone. We also realize that many are unable to attend New Year's Eve therefore you will have ample opportunity to find the perfect play time in our lineup.

Friday Night: Chatters Night  (Singles & Couples)                                                                                                  

Saturday Afternoon: Cougars Gone Wild Play Party (Singles & Couples)

Saturday Night: Sexy Panty Party (Couples & Single Females Only)

Sunday Afternoon: Interracial Couples & Singles Play Party (Everyone Welcome)

Sunday Night: Meet and Greet & Play (Couples & Singles)

Monday Afternoon: Trisch & Jerry's Special Day Before New Yar's Eve Special Event Play Party (Couples & Singles(3pm to 7pm)

Monday Night: Indulge Night Party (Couples & Singles)

Tuesday Night: New Year's Eve Bash (9pm to 4am) (Couples & Single Females Only)

F YOU ARE STAYING NEAR THE CLUB FOR ANY OR ALL OF THESE DAYS PLEASE BOOK YOUR ROOM NOW AS THEY ARE GOING QUICKLY

Monte Carlo 1886 Dundas East    (Ask for the M4 Rate)

Super 5 Inn 2171 Dundas East  (Ask for Club M4 Rate)

Gate Inn    1938 Dundas East     (Ask for Club M4 Rate)

NEW YEARS EVE INFO AND PRICING. 1) VIP Couples and Single Women. NO Charge 

2) $100 per couple prepay

3) $120 per couple if you buy your tickets at the door.

4) $199 couples annual VIP pass.  This includes your NYE Tickets and one year of unlimited entry to all of ClubM4's events; nighttime and daytime.

Tickets can be pre-payed up until December 31st at 8pm. Prepay one of three ways:

In Person at ClubM4

By Phone via Credit Card: E Transfer:  Send it to: .  Use the security question: What is your favorite club.  Answer: ClubM4

FYI We think this will be the busiest NYE in M4 History.  Make your plans NOW!

See you soon at ClubM4

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For close to 11 years we have opened the play area on Saturday Night at Midnight.  Beginning this SATURDAY we will open the play area at 10pm.  Towels will be required for those people in the back after 10pm.  You can remain clothed in the Library until midnight but at 12 that area will change to on premise/towels only as well.

We have decided to do this on a trial basis for a couple of reasons: first, we have had so many people ask us over the years, "Why can't we play earlier? We have to be home by midnight, can't we go in the back now? We are a little older, we don't want to be out all night."  We have heard those complaints and more.  We want to accommodate everyone but not lose the energy of the front that makes it such a sexy prequel to the night.  With the new ClubM4, the attendance has gone up so dramatically that we think we can accomplish both, allowing earlier play and a rocking dance floor!  Have fun this weekend!  Every night is going to be wildly busy.

                                                                   Rich 

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We have been selling annual passes at a discounted rate since May 15.  The promo goes until June 30.  It is, for $199 per couple, an unlimited pass to ClubM4.  There are no restrictions, so it covers all the big events like Halloween, New Years and our Grand Opening.

We have a lot of new people coming to M4 this weekend who have never been to our club.  We wanted to make this offer to those people:

Whatever you paid for admission and membership to the club can be used as a direct credit to purchase an annual pass if it is done by the end of the weekend.  We know that people may not want to commit to a years pass without seeing the club.  This gives them an opportunity to see the club, and for very little extra money get an upgrade to a VIP membership.

Unlike most clubs, M4 is open 7 nights of the week and 5 day parties.  So having the option to just drop by any night or day is a luxury.

We are only 8 hours from opening....Yikes!

Have a great weekend!

Rich

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Well.....I promised a big announcement and here it is:

After 11 wonderful years at 2814 Lakeshore we are MOVING!

The new address is 1989A Dundas St East, Mississauga.

GRAND OPENING:  FRIDAY AND SATURDAY JUNE 14 AND 15TH!!

The new club is larger, more centrally located, with better parking and a long term lease.  It is a significant UPGRADE from 2814 Lake Shore Blvd West.

I think that you will be very impressed with what we have done with the space. It is the culmination of more than a decade of experience combined with a physical layout which lends itself to the lifestyle. Here are a couple of specifics about the club: 

1) It is 10,000 square feet.  A little bit bigger than M4. 2) There is ample free parking.

3) We are at the intersection of Dundas and the 427, a major crossroads, yet the club is set back so that there is no street visibility.   

4) We are no longer in the basement.  The club is a ground floor location!  Woohoo!!!

5) There are four reasonably priced hotels within walking distance of the club. 

6) We are about a 10 minute drive from the old location and closer and more convenient for the majority of our customers.

7) We have a long term lease, more than 9 years.

For those of you wondering about the transition to Dundas:  We hope to make it as seamless as possible and not be closed any night. We will be open on Lakeshore until the day we move.  The Grand Opening is Friday and Saturday the 14th and 15th of June.  Thursday June 13th will be the last night at 2814 Lakeshore......

We are sad to move but anxious and excited about the new location.  Remembering how many mistakes I made in June of 2008 I approach this move with trepidation but cautious optimism.  We know a lot more but each situation is different and I hope you will give us the time to make changes and adjustments to the new location.  

 

I know when you make any major change people always want to know what really happened.  Here is the back story:

 

With 21 months to go on our lease, our landlord told us that he might not renew. I did not take him seriously.  After all we were his oldest tenant and paying street level rates for a basement that few businesses would want.  When I signed the lease in 2007 they had not had a tenant since 1992.  They were very circumspect as to why they wanted us out and eventually came up with a story about using the space for themselves as a non-public warehouse.  It didn't make sense to me then and it doesn't now.  Warehouse space can be had for much less than we were paying.  With about 18 months to go they told us they were definitely not renewing the lease and wanted us out and sooner rather than later. A year and a half seems like a long time but to find the right location, with a liquor license and a landlord who will take a lifestyle business, is a huge challenge.  

 

We started by looking at warehouse space.  It was appealing because we could start from scratch and build exactly what we wanted.  The down side is that....we'd be starting from scratch. Matt and I have some skills but architectural design and build out and decorating are not among them.  In addition we would be dealing with the uncertainty of permits and acquiring a brand new liquor license.  Maybe we could get it all done in 17 months...but maybe not.  

 

We then started looking at businesses with existing licenses.  We found some nice locations downtown but they were very expensive and there was no parking.  I know that urban clubs can do well and survive on public transport and proximity to a large population base, but that has not been the M4 model.  We are mostly a destination club, and the majority of our members drive.  Only about 20% of our clientele uses TTC so I felt that we would lose a significant chunk of our current members.  I didn't want to incur the expense of moving and completely flip our business model.  

 

We needed something that was more than 8000 sq. feet, had a liquor license and parking for 150 cars or more.  Not an easy find in today's real estate market!  

In March 2018 we were approached by the owners of a property on City View Lane.  It seemed like it would meet all of our criteria.  It was big, 14,000 sq. ft.  It had a liquor license attached and while the parking wasn't perfect, it was something we thought we could work around; and, they approached us. They knew what our business was. We started looking at the space immediately.  Apparently there had been a flood there in February.  The existing tenants had not paid their hydro bill and the pipes froze and exploded causing substantial water damage.  We were told on our first visit that it was a minor clean up and that the spot would be rentable in 30-60 days.  Before I left town I made them a verbal offer which they accepted.  The building owner said, "Just put something in writing and I'll have my attorney draft up a lease." With a three month build out in mind, we envisioned opening in August or September of 2018.  

 

When I got home I drafted almost word for word what we had agreed to and sent it off.  The owner said, "Listen, I'm going out of the country for two weeks, I won't be able to look at your proposal until I get back to Canada."  Hmm.....That sounded a bit odd.  I'm sure that other countries have Internet.  Why couldn’t he read it?  But I said Ok.  We will talk as soon as you get home. 

 

It was almost May before I heard from them again, the owner said: "Your proposal is unacceptable.  My partners will never agree to this deal.  I've decided that we don't want you as a tenant."  Damn! Why did they contact us in the first place???? We had now lost two valuable months and the clock was ticking.  I was worried that we were never going to find a location. I said to Matt, "Maybe we could negotiate an extension of our current lease: "What do you think about offering our landlord $100,000 to extend our lease for two years?"  "I don't think he'll take it but I'll ask," Matt said.  The next day Matt called me back with the news, "Not interested." Yikes, 15 months and counting. 

Over the summer we looked at more places and nothing seemed to work.  By the end of September I was getting a bit nervous....I told Matt, I'm going to come up to Toronto next week. Show me everything.  I'm staying until we find something.  When he picked me up at the airport he said there was nothing new on the market but that a location he had seen a couple of weeks ago seemed like it had real possibilities.  The only problem....There is an existing business there and they want $400,000 for the business.  What?????????  What kind of business is it?  "A wedding hall," Matt said.   Ugh...I thought. 

The next day we drove there.  I had very low expectations.  But as we turned off of Dundas to the wedding hall I thought, "This is a pretty nice entrance.  The club has great frontage but cannot be seen from the street.  Perfect!"    The club itself was very basic.  It was a 10,000 sq. ft. Vanilla shell that happened to have a liquor license and a 10 year lease attached.  But the price...that wasn't going to happen.

How much business do you think this guy does?  "I don't know" said Matt.  Well, let’s ask him.

It turns out he was doing about $4,000 per month.  When I asked him how he justified the price he said, "I paid $285,000 for the business 2 years ago and I've put a lot of money into it." I looked around and all I saw was a sea of banquet tables and chairs, I didn't know that we would need $400,000 worth of wedding furniture! 

With no other prospects we began to negotiate to acquire the lease and liquor license. The price came down and down but the months were ticking off as well.  Around New Year’s it seemed like we had finally agreed to a price and something tentative was signed right before Christmas.  But a condition for us buying the business was that the landlord needed to consent to a lease assignment.  Again, we had a verbal agreement but nothing in writing.  "No money changes hands until we have that consent signed” I told the seller.  Of course no one was working over the holidays and when January 2 rolled around we learned the landlord was out of the country until the last week in January.  What is it with these damn landlords?!

In mid-January I took a surprising call from the owners of the City View.  They were very apologetic about what happened in the spring but they wanted to see if we'd like to rent the space under the original terms.  What happened to the deal we struck last spring I asked?  It turns out they said that the water damage was far more extensive than they had admitted to us.  The insurance company had deemed the premises as uninhabitable which is why it was un-rentable.  It had nothing to do with my offer.

So in the cold and snow of January Matt went to look at City View again.  It was a good property and a decent location but there were a couple of drawbacks.  Parking was an issue.  To ensure that we had enough would mean us paving over a grassy piece of land adjacent to the bar.  It was also really big, 14,000 sq. ft.  That would be fine when we had 400 people, but what about when we had 40? Or 14?  But on the plus side we didn't have to spend hundreds of thousands of dollars to acquire a lease and liquor license.

After Matt had gone back and forth between the two locations I asked him this, "Money aside; which is the better location for us to be in for the next ten years?"  "Dundas" he said emphatically.  It’s a far better location and I think our members will love it."  That was good enough for me. 

It took another month of back and forth but we finally got all the parties to sign on the last day of February.  At 6am on March 1, 2019 we began remodeling what we hope will be our home for at least the next decade.  They say that next to divorce and the death of a loved one, moving is the most stressful lifetime event.  I agree!!!  But now that we have taken over and the work on the new M4 is almost halfway done, we are extremely hopeful about the new location and our future there. 

I once wrote that my demise was likely to come carrying two cases of Coors Light down the stairs of M4.  Matt would find me dead and reeking of beer! 

Well....that particular prophecy is over.  There are no steps at the new M4.  We are out of the basement, into the sunlight and really excited to be the greatest club in North America!  See you at ClubM4!!!!

Rich                                                                                                                  

PS

After reading this you might get the impression that much of the work acquiring the new space was done by me.  That would be wrong. 

Almost all of the site selection, cost estimates, build out modules and hard work was done by Matt and Jerry.  I am a bystander. I trust their work ethic, judgment and honesty implicitly. 


Thank you Matt and Jerry!!!

                                                                                     

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The next YSS meet up is on Sat Aug 27th @ Club M4. All young couples are welcome and the party will be held in our VIP lounge from 9p-3a. This is a great time to meet other young couples who are interested in the lifestyle! Held every last Sat of the month, our YSS parties keep getting bigger and busier!   All young couples receive half price entry to the club. See you then!

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Welcome to the end of Summer 2016 with many fun events planned for this weekend! The Limousine service that we offer has been a huge success! We will offer it again FREE this month on:  

Aug 26th- Fri night, Chatters Night.

Aug 27th- Sat Night Matt's Birthday Bash

The Limo will depart from the Stay Inn to ClubM4 from 9pm to 11pm. Return trips will be from 1:30am to 3:30am. The number for the Stay Inn is  . Make sure you ask for the M4 rate. Come early!" Arrive early as these are going to be stellar nights!

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Hi everyone! We would really appreciate your feedback and help us figure out some numbers.  Please take a minute to answer this poll question

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How often do you attend Club M4?

-weekly

-every couple of weeks

-monthly

-every couple of months

-every few months

-once or twice a year

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We have a couple of special announcements for this coming weekend: First, we will again be offering the couples annual pass during the entire month of August 2016. The price is $199 per couple and gives couples free and unlimited access to the club for an entire year including all of the big Holiday's like Halloween, New Years Eve and Valentine's Day. It also includes the daytime events (as well as all of the evening events 365 nights a year). Its a great deal and we wanted to offer it a bit earlier this year so that all of our members could take advantage of the many great events we have coming up this fall.   Second, we will again be offering Limo service to and from the Stay Inn and Canada's Best Value Inn on Friday Night.  Pick ups at the hotels are from 9-11p and return service is from 1:30 to 3:30a. For reservations at the Stay Inn please call  . Canada's Best Value: . Ask for the M4 rate.   Last: Sunday Night is our Super Party. We are expecting a substantial turnout. Pricing is the same as a Friday night: No charge for couples before 10pm $20 discount for single men prior to 10pm, No charge for single women. 

If you have been a member of ClubM4 for the last few years you may have noticed how much we have grown during that period. There are many weeks where we get over 1000 people at ClubM4 and a few months where we bring in almost 4000 people. It is not unusual for there to be more people at M4 in a week than all the other swingers venues in Toronto combined. We think the reason for our success is threefold: 1) Fair and affordable pricing. We want members to be able afford to come out not just once but many times during the month. 2) The club culture which celebrates the diversity of our members. Our motto continues to be: While we are not the club for everyone; EVERYONE is welcome. 3) We really are a players club. If you want to play, the swingers who share your same desire are at M4 365 days and nights of the year. It is THE place to play in Canada. We look forward to seeing everyone this weekend and throughout the rest of 2016! Thanks for your support!!! Richard & Terry

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Welcome to the end of July 2016 with many fun events planned for this weekend! The Limousine service that we offer has been a huge success! We will offer it again FREE this month on: 

July 29th- Fri night, Chatters Night.

July 31st- Sunday Night SuperParty


The Limo will depart from the Stay Inn to ClubM4 from 9pm to 11pm. Return trips will be from 1:30am to 3:30am. The number for the Stay Inn is  . Make sure you ask for the M4 rate. Come early!" Arrive early as these are going to be stellar nights!

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Welcome to the end of July 2016 with many fun events planned for this weekend! The Limousine service that we offer has been a huge success! We will offer it again FREE this month on: 

July 29th - Sunday Night SUPERPARTY
July 31st - Fri night, Chatters Night.
The Limo will depart from the Stay Inn to ClubM4 from 9pm to 11pm. Return trips will be from 1:30am to 3:30am. The number for the Stay Inn is  . Make sure you ask for the M4 rate. Come early!" Arrive early as these are going to be stellar nights!

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Our next BBW meet up is this Sat July 23rd from 3-7p at Club M4 in Toronto. Held every last Sat of the month, we have a great group of people who love to come meet and/or play with others during the day. Everyone welcome.

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The next YSS meet up is on Sat July 30th @ Club M4. All young couples are welcome and the party will be held in our VIP lounge from 9p-3a. This is a great time to meet other young couples who are interested in the lifestyle! Held every last Sat of the month, our YSS parties keep getting bigger and busier!   See you then!

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Thank you PanzerKitty!  It will be a huge party with over 300 people as usual!  For anyone staying at the Stay Inn, we will have free limo service going to and from the club that night, all night. See you then!

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This Fri May 27th, we will again offer free Limo service for all our members of Club M4. Why? Because it's Chatters Night, the busiest night of the month and many couples and singles would prefer to hop in the limo to avoid searching for parking spaces and to avoid drinking and driving!  The limo will go from the Stay Inn to and from ClubM4!  Pickup times are from 9pm to 11:30pm and return trips go from 1:30 am to 3:30am.. If you would like to make a reservation at the Stay Inn their number is:  .  Make sure you ask for the M4 rate when you call.  This will be a great night you don't want to miss!

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The next YSS meet up is this Sat May 28th @ Club M4. All young couples are welcome and the party will be held in our VIP lounge from 9p-3a. This is a great time to meet other young couples who are interested in the lifestyle! Held every last Sat of the month, our YSS parties keep getting bigger and busier!   See you then!

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YSS meet up is this Sat Apr 30th @ Club M4. All young couples are welcome and the party will be held in our VIP lounge from 9p-3a. This is a great time to meet other young couples who are interested in the lifestyle! Held every last Sat of the month, our YSS parties keep getting bigger and busier!   See you then!

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Fri Apr 29th, we will again offer free Limo service for all our members of Club M4. Why? Because it's Chatters Night, the busiest night of the month and many couples and singles would prefer to hop in the limo to avoid searching for parking spaces and to avoid drinking and driving!  The limo will go from the Stay Inn to and from ClubM4!  Pickup times are from 9pm to 11:30pm and return trips go from 1:30 am to 3:30am.. If you would like to make a reservation at the Stay Inn their number is:  .  Make sure you ask for the M4 rate when you call.  This will be a great night you don't want to miss!