Just a small town girl… happily married and exploring with my husband. I’m the one that will most often chat on SH, so please send along a message!

I’m a 40 year old soft, thick, natural redhead… generally described as bubbly, flirty and fun, but I’m always kind of awkward at first! (Owning it) I have a big ass and a big smile to match

My husband is 48, handsome; 5 8” with a fantastic beard, twinkley blue eyes, and great sense of humour. He’s a great conversationalist and is one of those people that makes everyone feel heard and important

We’ve been in the lifestyle for a few years now and have had some fun experiences. I always want to meet in public socially first for a chat/vibe check over a meal, coffee or charcuterie.

We are a very discreet, professional couple who value connection, flirty banter, and mutual comfort. I’m most attracted to men with beards, that are broad, strong and that are taller than me (It’s not hard, I’m 5 4”) I love praise, compliments and being showered with attention. My husband loves curves, is an amazing kisser, and is funny and down to earth.

Vanilla us: We are a committed and drama free couple. We are very secure in our marriage. We like live music, movies, spending time outside (him in a hiking/canoeing way, me in a fruity cocktails on a patio way), sports, theatre, etc. We are casual drinkers and non-smokers. We both work full time m-f and have a busy home life. We can rarely meet without planning it out first and setting up childcare; but I think we are worth the effort!

Be nice, discreet in public and respectful always. Hope to hear from you soon!

NOT interested in cheating, secrets, sudden hook ups or any drama. Most interested in couples nearby and a very strong preference for non-smokers. Not interested in singles at this time.