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DepthBlue
1 day ago
Straight Male, 38
0 km · Vancouver

About

About me:

- Chemistry
I like to be involved on a mental level first, which means that I am not looking for random hookups, I must like the person that I am with, and I must feel that being together is going to bring something interesting to both our lives.

- Respect
I think that every partner can potentially bring something new to the table: I like to communicate, learn, and find ways for everyone to experience what they are looking for. That means that I don't push my interests on other people, I ask what they want, I respect what they share, and then I truthfully say if we can make it work or not. It's not about me, it's about us.

- Dominance
I am naturally dominant. I love to lead, to be in charge of a session, and to push boundaries in a firm yet respectful way. Consent is everything: submission is a gift and it has to be deserved. I want to know that my partner craves to be mine, because I proved to deserve her trust. Ideally, she would be an independent and fiery woman, interested to experiment with a man that can understand her. I want a woman that doesn't need a man, but wants one.

- Emotional intelligence
People are different. I like to be very clear about what I want and I don't assume that people will be on board with me: I try to understand why me or my partners feel in a certain way and in doubt I always ask. Basically, I constantly read the room and tune my behavior.


What I am looking for:

- Great connection and chemistry
While the physical aspect matters, I need to feel a connection on a mental level first. I like people that can be honest about what they truly want and are open to learn about me as well. Tell me who you are, what you need, what you crave.

- Meaningful play with couples
I have been playing with couples for more than a decade and I have been lucky enough to explore different settings. I recognize that people like different things and I will ask questions about what you want, but I won't ever try to force you into something that you are not comfortable with. I communicate, and I do it well, but I never impose. Me asking a question doesn't mean "let's do that", it just means that I am curious about what you want because remember, I don't know you and I don't play with people that I don't know.

- MFM, Hotwifing, Stag & Vixen, and Cuckolding.
All the above are interesting to me and I have explored all of them with different couples, but that doesn't mean that I had dozens of partners: quality over quantity. You are likely going to be interested only to one of those ways to play and that's OK, remember that we are all different. Personally, I believe that every way to play and every couple brings something new and exciting to the table, which means that I am interested in exploring any of the above and that I will respect your preferences without trying to impose my favorites on you. Don't be put off only because I mentioned something that you don't like: I might love steak, but that doesn't mean that I can't fully enjoy a good salad if the steakhouse is closed.

- Play with single women
I rarely play with unattached women, but I am open to change my mind if we do connect well on a mental level. I am very into kinks and play, so let that be your North Star.

Interests

Adult parties
Anal sex
B & D
Clubs and Parties
Cyber sex
Dogging
Erotic writing
Exhibitionism
Fetishes
Gang bangs
Group sex
Holidays
Living Abroad
Making videos
Masturbation
Oral sex
Outdoor sex
Role play
Straight sex
Threesomes
Voyeurism

Seeking

Female
Couple
Female Couple
Age: 18 - 100
Distance: 1500 km