Quote by Curouscpl
We are in the area ! Hoping to meet others
How does one connect unless a paid member? lol

What happened the last few years?
1. The site(s) started to charge more and more
2. Same people on the different site
3. Same people with multiple profiles
4. To many youngsters hiding behind keyboards
or
Maybe it because some like myself are not in cyber or "masterbating to a photo...) lol
I think there are trust issues in your relationship. Plus, a little or lot of possessiveness. You are also mixing up swinging with cheating. It's time for a frank discussion on where the two of you are in your relationship. Be prepared to lay bare how you feel and what you are thinking. Hope both of you are honest with each other...