first timers looking to see what it's like.  Looking for like minded couples

Professional couple who are looking for similar.     

You are together for the long haul and have been committed for a long time.  

Ideally a couple that we would be friends in "real" life but have possible fun benefits .  He is straight, she has been known to explore when both women are attracted, it is not a start or end to the conversation.

We have explored this before and doing it again, we need straight up with no nonsense or drama.

We are very discrete about this, and can be a challenge, not into big groups or public parties, smaller mor intimate is best.  We have young kids so we like to host and welcome to stay over.  Makes the night not end and continue.