We’re a married couple in the Lower Mainland. We talked about this for a long time and we’re finally doing it.

She’s 5'8, slim, blonde, early 50s. Flirty. Likes being kissed and paid attention to. She can be shy at first and then she’s not. She’s lightly experimented with women before and that still interests her. With men she likes someone confident who doesn’t act like a tryhard.

He’s 5'10, medium build, straight. He’s into this because he likes seeing her wanted. He’ll stay in the room, give space, or join. Depends on the night and how she feels.

We’re new to meeting people for this, not new to the idea. We go slow. Message first. Meet for a drink in public if it feels right. No rushing.

Looking for one decent connection. A respectful guy or an easygoing couple. We keep our regular life private and expect the same. to experiment and see what's out there! Open minded and a happy person.