Looking for FWB/NSA for fun in and OUT of the bedroom

Not Really Sure I'm on the right site as I am single...hiwever...here goes....

Lately have been a girl on girl itch that needs scratching please if you do to feel free to message.

NOT looking for "one and done" encounters and I'm not looking to jump in bed after meeting you once, but will not disappoint if we do get to that stage 😈

Speaking of not settling, and I know this is going to sound wildly hypocritical, but even though I am a curvy (verging on plump) girl I am really only drawn to fit/muscular men (dad bod is ok, sometimes hot even but unfortunately bigger fellows just don't do it for me -sexually that is, but I'm always up for making new friends!!!) And even more confusing...when it comes to women I dont really have a body type...love em all hehe.

I am very much Left leaning so please no Orange Dictator fans.

Do I seem picky/demanding....perhaps...but I promise you I am worth it😈

If you are married/engaged/have a girlfriend that "really wants you to have fun with someone else/is ok with you having fun with someone else", Great!! As soon as she/they and I sit down over drinks and they tell me that to my face we're good to go! The "she's fine with me doing it but doesn't want to know about it"s need not apply...NOT my first rodeo my friend...

I like to go for drinks/dinner to get to know one another first and then if the chemistry is there we may move on to naughty times...worst case scenario if the chemistry ISN'T there we've still made a new friend/s!!

If we chat for any length of time/play online/make plans to meet up/etc. and you change your mind, for whatever reason, please be a grown up and drop a quick note saying "now's not a good time for me". Let's leave the ghosting to M. Night Shyamalan.

If you are under 45 or over 65, I MIGHT not respond (did I mention I'm doing things on my terms now ).....  

****I AM DEFINITELY NOT LOOKING TO HELP ANYONE CHEAT ON THEIR SIGNIFICANT OTHER***If you tell me 'she's/he's ok with it I'ma going to need to hear it straight from their lips... 

Not looking for one and done, hookups, dogging, et al....want a few FWB that I can enjoy spending time with as much just having a drink or dinner out with as getting freaky in the sheets with...