We are a couple

There is no compulsion and everything is consensual

I like to have sex with my wife in front of me.

I am just a spectator and do not like to be looked at or talked to during sex.

My wife is a submissive and loves any kind of rough sex, even torture and humiliation

She is also open to anal sex

Sexual hygiene is important to us, including full condom use. You'd better be the host and there will be alcohol to make my wife very drunk and submissive so you can do whatever you want with her holes.