26 Years Strong. Friends First. Minds Open.

Bio:

We are a solid, grounded couple (together 26 years, married 16) looking to expand our circle with genuine, intelligent people. We aren’t here to "collect" experiences; we are here to build real connections.

We operate on a "slow burn" philosophy. We are demisexual-leaning and prioritize comfort, mental stimulation, and chemistry outside the bedroom before anything happens inside it. We are looking for a "Kitchen Table" dynamic—where we can enjoy a deep debate over coffee just as much as a night at the club.

Our Vibe:

You’ll find us at philosophy discussion groups, local meet-ups, or enjoying the atmosphere at fet socials. We are comfortable in lifestyle spaces but we prefer the social side first.

What we love:

• Deep Dives: We thrive on conversation about how humans tick, philosophy, and psychology.

• Community: We enjoy the energy of a club or social event, but we need personal rapport to engage.

• Honesty: We value transparency and emotional intelligence above all.

We are looking for:

Couples or established groups who are emotionally steady, independent, and understand that the best heat comes from a simmering pot, not a microwave. If you need a rush, we aren't your match. If you are looking for friends who can hold a conversation and a scene, let's chat.