- Update June 2026 -

As we evolve and grow in our relationship, exploring each other, our wants, needs, desires, and kinks; we find ourselves open to new frontiers. We are a secure, married couple, who met in the LS (on this very site, to be precise) - with probably 30 years in the LS between the two of us. We aren't into drama or games; and believe in open communication.

We are open to adding ongoing partners to our dynamic - with my travel schedule, aurora_ is seeking someone to date during my absences - someone she can hang out with, goto dinner or spend a beach day with, as well as fun in (and out) of the bedroom; and I am looking for something similar for myself.

We continue to explore, both together as a couple and on our own; Hotwife scenes are big for me, but not interested in cuck-type situations, nor are we seeking a Dom or Bull arrangement. I enjoy watching my favourite porn star do her thing. We are also open to Hot-Husband / Cuckquean play, but again - no interest in any sort of degradation.

Sex begins in the mind, and for both her and I, that's where it will start. Interesting conversation, moving relatively quickly into a social meet... Chatting and getting to know people virtually is a great start; but at the end of the day, we're looking for fun...

I'm a retired Fire Captain (hence the handle); solid dad-bod, and some tattoos... I had a heart attack, followed open heart surgery a few years back, so have some scars and stories.

Aurora_ and I have free, grandfathered accounts on the site; hence having our own separate logins...

We love having fun; but between work, family and vanilla commitments, our time is sometimes at a premium, so plans can be difficult to align, and we apologize in advance for that! I travel for work, so my location may change from time to time, but home base is Niagara Falls area.