I'm new to the lifestyle but my play partner isn't and were both 51. I run the account but we make decisions together. I'm dipping my toes in and looking to meet some other couples for us to have fun and a woman that doesn't mind teaching a newbie. It of course starts with chatting and a meet up at a club or something to and feel the vibe. I'm a professional, chill person and have a broad range of interests and music is top of the list. Communication is key for me including great conversation as my partner and I are very chatty. NOT interested in Single Males