Together 16 years and stronger than ever, we're partners in life and in our adventure through the lifestyle.

We've been exploring the LS for over 3 years and have found that what truly matters most to us is connection—friendship first, play compatibility second. We're not into the quick meet-and-hook-up approach; we're looking to build something more meaningful.

Our ideal scenario? Friends we can regularly hang out with—whether it's game nights, drinks on the deck, cheering on the Riders, or just good convo—who also share an appreciation for the benefits the LS has to offer.

We consider ourselves primarily soft swap, but we’re open to more if it feels right. We always play together and in the same room. We love the excitement of watching and being watched and are regulars at hot tub parties and takeover events.

We're also avid sports fans—football especially—so if you’re into that too, even better!

We enjoy ongoing conversation and believe chatting is a great way to build connection, break up the workday, and make plans. With our evolving schedules, planned meetups are a must, and fun, flirty digital communication is a big part of how we get there. If you’re not into chatting and getting to know each other first, we might not be the right match.

We’re open to out-of-town meetups within our general area with some planning.

Not interested in single males or quick hookups. We respect all journeys in the lifestyle, and we ask that others respect ours too.

If anything here resonates with you, we’d love to hear from you and get to know you better.