*We'll be on hiatus until late October because of work and other commitments.

*We don't accept friend requests from people we have never met, talked to, or gotten to know irl or online. Please read through our profile and if things line up shoot us a message, and let get to know each other.

*Singles with penises, I appreciate the interest but we are currently not looking for a third male/FtM partner without an accompanying female(s). Feel free to follow us if you like us and what you read below, but we will reach out to you if we're interested.

Fit easy going couple new to the local scene, but have dabbled in the Lifestyle elsewhere. We're deeply connected to each other and have built a strong loving foundation for our relationship.

She (30F) is a fun, sociable, heteroflexible, and sexy working professional who is full of energy. He (29M) is a mostly heterosexual, chill, handsome, and an empathetic student who loves to be generous, be dominant, and create a safe space for everyone. We're both outgoing and love cooking, dancing, snow sports, anime, video games, and being kinky. We only engage in same room play and always together as we enjoy exploring shared experiences with others (FMFM+ & FFM, sorry not ready for MMF yet).

Open honest communication is key for us and we love good conversationalists. Since we're still new to this, there are some boundaries and kinks we have yet to explore, so it's important we don't rush into things with this kind of stuff. That said we have played in front of others at a sex club, and have played with a couple of couples so far. We did do full swap and had a blast but we wouldn't have done so without building trust, rapport and an attraction first.

We alcohol and 420 friendly, but don't like the taste of partners that smoke cigarettes or do hard drugs.

We're looking for fit, d&d free, & covid safe fwb's who are female unicorns, cool couples, hotwives, vixens, or cuckoldresses that are close to our age (~20 to <37-40). While we are looking for more casual friendships, we aren't looking for a sexual prop to spice up our sex life or an entangled poly relationship. We want to hear about what you want, get to know you, learn about your kinks/boundaries/fantasies/limits/non-sexual interests/etc, and then see if we are capable of giving you what you want with in our best ability & vice-versa.

If you fall outside our criteria, like being in the older demographic, I'm sorry if we seem ageist or exclusionary but it's a personal preference thing that we can't force. There's also often a difference in perspectives and vibes that come with large age gaps. Obviously not universally true, I've seen a few cuties here that are 40+ that have great writeups but over all physical and intellectual attraction is quite important for us where play is involved. Physically, we generally prefer younger fitter looking faces (bonus for having kind eyes). I'd rather not mislead you about what we are looking for. If you're unsure if you meet this criteria, shoot us a message. We will check you and your profile out and let you know bluntly whether or not we find you attractive. If it's a no but we vibe and you're okay with having a platonic friendship with no expectations of more, we'd love to be friends and learn from you experience.

To reiterate, we are somewhat new to this and the amount of information on fetlife about kinks, couples privilege, consent, ENM, shitty unicorn hunters, etc. is eye opening (appreciated) and also overwhelming. We're doing our best to stay up to date but there's a lot we don't know and we might make mistakes. However, we can promise you that we will do our best to hold a safe space where we can respect boundaries, learn from one another, listen for feedback (good/bad), and allow things to be rolled back if anyone ends up beyond their comfort zone. We will never try to pressure you or your partner and ask for the same respect in return.

Note: we only have a basic account for now so our messaging capacity is limited. Also we would love to be invited to some of the local SH groups in the Okanagan or in BC, we can't join any because of the paywalls.