I am an extremely open minded, down to earth 42 year old female living a poly and alternative lifestyle.  I have been to a couple of private swinger parties and absolutely loved them.  I offer honesty, and sense of humour with no BS.  I would like to think that I could expect the same back.  I am considered a BBW, if you don't know what this means; it means I am not a barbie doll lol. I am also one of those nasty smokers, the amount I smoke varies with the company I keep.  I very rarely drink and I don't do recreational drugs.  Anything else you might like to know, you are going to have to come and ask me *smiles*. Please keep in mind that I am just a basic member so apparently I can only send 3 messages in a 24 hour time frame.  If you don't get one back from me, please don't take it personally.