Ok, I am just going to put this out there.  Manners are a big thing with me and I think it is with a lot of people on this site, but Have you ever started a conversation with someone, back and forth, then BAM, no reply, not even, sorry you are not what I or we are looking for.  I find that the purpose of manners is key to at least be polite.  I know that we are all not perfect, but is nice to say no thank you or sorry not at this time.  I find that in this day and age we have to be a bit more respectful of the people around us, to be polite and show that not all of us have to be mean and rude.  Being direct is understandable, but to be ignored or just plain cut off off with out explanation, well leaves this individual dumb founded.  Let me know what you think.

Well, from a single male point of view, seduction is conversation and yes single men sometimes will step outside the boundaries of trying to lure the wife away for a rendezvous, but I find that is because they are young and horny.  The one aspect through my experience is through maturity and set rules of conduct, after the initial meeting and everyone is comfortable or click together, is when you proceed to further in the adventure.  But also ladies, it is you who set those rules because if you are the centre of attention, then it is you who is the queen of the moment.  But if the encounter is bi-situational, what happens, happens.  The seduction is played out by all parties.  But through communicating, everyone should get an understanding of who is who in the zoo.  I have been with, MFM, FMF. and a few other situations, and it still comes down to speaking to each other and understanding all involved where all have a wonderful time.

I have only been on this site for a short time, but I have been in the lifestyle longer, and the one thing I know is that you have to have patience where ever you go.  You feel out your partners, and progress at your rate of speed, not hey, hi, let's fuck.  For everyone to enjoy this endeavor you must be willing to communicate and not expect..You might be surprised of the out come.  I have made some wonderful friends over the years, and they have included me in some of their adventures also.  So take the time to get to know the people you are approaching and have the patience to listen.

Just to let you know, all the subway cars have cameras, so you would be on film, lol.  But your fantasy has possibilities, done in the right context.  It would have to be rush hour, the largest crowds are at those times, and you would more likely have a few voyeurs watching.  And this day of multi media, it would be posted in about five seconds.  Well good luck. Happy Hunting lol.