We are an Asian couple open to play with the right guys or couples. We do not play often although we do often go to swinger clubs to dance, drink, and have a good time. We only play with those we have developed a mental connection with through talks or other non-sexual interactions. When minds click, physical affection will follow. Sex will be most enjoyable at that level.

Mrs. is most easily turned on by a good intellectual and at times flirty conversation, so if we can hold a conversation over a drink or two without struggling to find topics for at least half an hour, most likely we have had that mental connection which is a prelude to great sex afterwards.