We would come to any private party for swinger couples. Unfortunately lately we joined varios events with wanna be swingers, events for swingers, kinksters and everything else under the sun, so interests were diverging, and so on. So now we are really wary of joining events, as we know we won’t have a good time. We like smaller events where we know at least some of the people, or we can exchange some messages before to understand what everyone is into.