I am in an open marrige where there are some boundaries which I do keep due to respect for my partner.  I am a tall (five foot nine), Rubenesque woman with a strong sensual side that comes out to play when the chemistry and connection is strong. I host am a volunteer host at Club M4 (swinger and lifestyle club). I mention this for full disclosure as I believe in being honest.  I've also been asked constantly why I describe myself as large.  I am not thin by any means.  I also know how to take good picturs with great camera angles.  I will be very blunt now.  I am between five foot nine and five foot ten in height.  I wear 3 inch pumps at times that would make me a little over six feet in height.  I am also a size 16-18.  That is not a medium built woman, but in most terms, large.  If anyone is hoping to meet a small woman that looks like a barbie, I would have to say, "It is not me".    I am working on losing the excess lbs but that takes time and I feel being honest, is the best policy.  Those that are on here, that have met me, can attest to what I say is true.

Looking For

I usually can tell if there is any fire within a minute of meeting a person.  

I am generally attracted to the following traits in a man:
- tall 5'11' plus
- mischievous
- 40 - 56 years old
- light eyed (hazel, green, grey, blue), 
- athletic
- Alpha (but NOT a DOM as in BDSM - yes I have experimented in that area but have no desire to give or recieve pain. I am a sensualist who doesn't get off on pain at all)
- quiet spoken
- respectful
- intelligence 
- sensual
- lots of stamina (I'm sorry gentlmen but I prefer a male with a penis at least 5 inches or larger) and likes to play and fuck for hours

 I am told I am too stubborn and particular but  I feel that if the vibe isn't right, it isn't for me. I love to socialize and meet new people, however. 

Not Interested in

Disrespectful men: alcohol and drug abusers; aggressive, pushy men that touch without permission; game players; unaffectionate and unreliable individuals (people who don't keep their word) need not even consider contacting me. I am also not interested in random hookups (where a guy plays with a woman and gets off and leaves after he gets his rocks off) nor do I tolerate being hurt physically or mentally. I am not a masochist nor a sadist, nor do I appreciate being used and discarded like a piece of garbage. Respect is paramount! If someone acts that way with me once, don’t expect another chance. It will not happen.