April 2025 update: yikes, our slow start in the lifestyle has seemingly geared down, appreciate the patience! more than happy to chat and break some ice, though admittedly on the slow end of the spectrum when it comes to sliding in… feel free to reach out and chat, you just never know how enticing the vibes might get 🤞🏼

We’re new to the lifestyle and moving cautiously as we navigate unfamiliar territory, discover our true desires and dial in the ideal pace while preserving inner peace. We value honesty and open communication, both with ourselves and others, as we learn and grow together.

Here’s where we stand:

Sexuality: straight in general, meaning - to the sober mind, we’re not likely to fantasize bisexually, however - flexibility could grow situationally with the right vibe, group connection and perhaps some liquid courage.

Single males: Not interested unless we initiate contact.

Smokers: Not a match, but we’re 420-friendly.

We’re in our late 30s, with an empty nest in sight. High school sweethearts, married for over 20 years, and preparing to explore this next chapter together. While we’re lifestyle beginners, we’re looking for like-minded, down-to-earth couples who value real connections, respect, and discretion. Hygiene, self-care, and mutual attraction (mental and physical) are priorities for us, though we’re realistic and grounded.

We’re excited to explore, learn, and grow together - with the right people. Thanks for taking the time to check us out, and we hope to connect with others who share our values and sense of adventure!