Smart, sexy married mother looking to dip my toe back into life's candy store again after a long hiatus of libido. I'm highly adventurous, but also a stickler for respect, consent, and boundaries. I'm happy in my relationship with a highly monogamous man who may become curious about swinging or perhaps letting me watch him get together with another woman but mostly I'm here for me. I'm not at a stage where I'm ready to dive into anything, just dipping my toe into the community and guaging what is going on out there. I'd love to share fantasies, watch others, attend parties alone. I'm pretty strong and independent but can be submissive for someone who earns my trust and respect. I WILL ONLY REPLY TO THOUGHTFUL ARTICULATE MESSAGES that actually tell me something about you and perhaps ask me more about me. "Hey, what's up?" or "Hi, how are you?" just aren't going to cut it.