Looking for a female or female in a group or couple for fun.

I have an easy going personality, somewhat quiet with a group of people but with one person I open up more. I'm a bit of a lone wolf.

I don't really like going to noisy bars, and loud meeting or gathering places too much. I prefer quieter places to meet like coffee shops, and small and more intimate and quiet restaurants. I do like going to a party especially where there are friends. That being said, I do enjoy going to rock concerts and musical performances.

I have a fairly busy career life. On occasion I travel for work.

I have found what makes me happy in my life... I'm not looking for that from anyone else (and neither should you), I just want to share what I have with a willing partner.

Why am I here when I'm already married? The answer is simple: I'm in a dry marriage where my wife has zero inclination to sex for many reasons. When we occasionally do have it (once ever several years), it's disappointing at best due to her physical/health limitations. I'm only human, and would rather not live a lifetime without the sex that even the most average human just needs. If you don't understand this then forget it.

What I'm looking for...

Four a couple or group: If the vibe is right I'm basically good.

For a single female:

First a woman that is fun. Genuine, intelligent and a good communicator. Intelligence is important, the brain is an often underappreciated erogenous zone. I also like humour in a woman... spontaneous laughter shared between two partners is amazing when it happens.

Someone that is not judgmental about my current marital situation and truly understands why I'm here.

I'm looking for something long term preferably, a regular partner or FWB if the connection is good. I'm okay with short term or one time hookups too, but only if we both understand this up front.

I'm looking for someone that understands me, and appreciates my situation. Someone that will not jeopardize my life, or try to change anything in it. I will deal with my situation when I feel the time is right, and not sooner. I'm just here for the fun part and to get the fulfillment where due to my current situation that just isn't in the realm of possibility.

I hope my partner has a spontaneous side like myself, but at the same time is patient as I'm not always available given my situation. A bit of discretion is important, at least for now until things change.

My partner should have a high sex drive that closely matches mine (if that's possible).

In short I'm looking for someone that is fun, non-judgmental, patient, and most of all likes to have sex.

I'm also not into head games, or drama - I won't play anyone's games... so don't even think of trying it with me! I'm only into mutual pleasure and enjoyment that comes with the right partner.